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Why are you filming?

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To know what you went through as a kid.

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I went through all kinds of stuff.
Why didn't you film me then?

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I went through a lot.

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But who knows my sufferings?

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My dad bought me all I asked for.

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I meant your birth story.

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My birth? How do I know?

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So I am filming.

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What's the point, sis?

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What's the point in your opinion?

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If dad hadn't adopted
me, would I have died?

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Yes.

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I didn't know...

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I was saved by the herbs

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that your mom took.

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I didn't know about it.

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Your mom told you so?

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Yes, she did.

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She hasn't told me that much.

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I interviewed her.

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No wonder.

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About them abandoning me?

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Your parents dumped me and
came back to check on me?

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You want to see their interviews?

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Mom and Dad had always wanted a son.

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Despite her wishes, my mom
conceived seven girls in ten years.

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The fortuneteller saw in those daughters
the reincarnation of Seven Fairies.

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Disappointed, Dad cried in
front of Goddess Guanyin.

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Lü, one of the Eight
Immortals, heard his crying.

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Lü asked Goddess Guanyin to let
him reincarnate as a boy for Dad.

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Touched by Dad's earnestness,
Goddess Guanyin consented.

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Understanding that Lü was missing our
world, Dad named their son ‘Sifan'.

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'Si' as 'miss', 'Fan' as 'the world'.

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By 2008, I joined your family's life.

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It has been worse than hell.

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I had sorted them out.
You messed it all up.

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I'm helping to sort them.

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You did it all the wrong way!

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Oops! I did it wrong.

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If you had asked first,
it wouldn't have happened.

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Your mom's been irritating all day.

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How could I ask her?

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You prefer to do it wrong?

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You're guessing...

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Because you two are her favorites.

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Miss, I need a photo for
certificate application.

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Which kind?

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Look this way.

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Auntie, I go home for lunch.

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So you are off work now?!

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Why would you say that?

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I'll never work with your parents again.

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I can't make them happy.

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Hold on.

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Press the settings key...

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What's next?

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Sit!

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You are such a useless boy.

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Aren't you?

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Aren't you?!

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Anyone is better than you.

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Don't expect to eat my food.

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Jin never phones us.

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She doesn't visit, as if we are strangers.

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Don't you know why?

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- I don't. - You don't trust each other.

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Trust! I can't visit her every day.

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I have a store to run!

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At least, you could phone her.

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Why would I? Why shouldn't she call?

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I don't like talking on the phone.

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I don't know what to say.

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Her trauma keeps growing in her mind.

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You can't avoid trauma.

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It will always be there.
She'll never make it out.

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Like when she lived with
us during high school.

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You know she didn't enjoy it then?

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That's Jin! She just can't
communicate with you.

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She keeps silent. You can't talk to her.

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I'm very good to sis Jin.

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I always support her when Mom scolds her.

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- When did I scold her? - Last time.

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- What the hell did I
say? -You scolded her.

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Did I say anything wrong?

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You made her upset!

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If she gets upset, what can I do?

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I think Jin is nice.

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I often talk to her.

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I asked her if she holds a grudge

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talking sincerely about it.

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She did when she was little.

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She couldn't understand
why she was abandoned.

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Growing up, she found her
way to understand you.

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She has no grudge now.

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Then why acting this way?

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It's just her character, no?

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She cares about details, we don't.

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We don't understand her sensitivity.

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- It's hard to get along. - Be patient!

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I don't have much patience.

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We should take the first step,
rather than asking her to.

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You should try to talk to my parents

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to avoid misunderstanding each other.

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What do you mean?

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You can't read each other's mind.

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They don't know what you think.

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So you end up guessing each other.

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But not understand each other.

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Is this what you want?

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Give me some advice.

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You can call them sometime.

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I don't want to.

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Tell them how you are.

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I don't have anything to say.

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Sifan! Make a bow to the Goddess.

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Sifan!

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What are you drinking?

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A soft drink.

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Have a real drink!

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She's breastfeeding. No alcohol.

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I don't drink.

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You have to make a toast.

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Yes. Say something.

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They've said it all. What else can we say?

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At least, you should address them.

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You can't just toast and go.

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Nevermind.

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Give her a minute.

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Forget it.

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Just a minute.

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She's crying.

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Forget it.

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We understand.

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We owe you.

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We owe you.

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We are one family now.

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Jin, I know what you've been through.

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We had no choice then.

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This is my favorite photo.

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Your grandma looks like your mom.

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She's your grandma too.

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I never meet her or her husband.

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You never met her?

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I never met her before she died.

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I've never had a photo
taken with your family.

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It's normal.

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I remember when you were in school.

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Your mom often brought you stuff.

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She was so nice to you.

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She picked you up by car on rainy days.

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What about you?

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She didn't do that for me.

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Mom treated us equally, no?

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No. I never asked your dad to pick me up.

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Well, you didn't ask.

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You didn't have to ask.

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I remember it well.

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Tomorrow I'll go to my
little sister's home.

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I'm expecting an uneasy day.

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I remember I skipped school once.

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She is my real sister.

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But villagers tease her about her origin:

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"You look identical to Qiong."

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"Your parents took you from their home."

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They'd say from a trash bin.

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We used to laugh these gossips away.

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But now, as a family,
we have to deal with it.

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Little sister skipped school today.

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When was it?

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January 15th, 2010.

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Five years ago.

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Did I skip school?

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It came as a shock.

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People sees my sister as a shy girl.

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I would've never expected
her to be so bold.

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But I was wrong.

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She did skip school.

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I don't know what she was thinking.

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It's easy for them to say she was wrong.

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But she made me realize,

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feel deeply,

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that it isn't her fault,

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but our whole family's fault.

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She's so young and knows so little.

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She remains silent when she's hurt.

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And she evades after being silent,

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even if doing so harms her.

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Ten years ago,

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Mom gave birth to her.

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But since she's a girl,

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and because my family is poor,

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we couldn't feed one more kid.

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Dad had to make a decision,

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which turned out to be…

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How much do you know about Jin's birth?

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- Mom talks about it at dinner? - Yes.

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How they abandoned baby Jin
and what happened after.

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Well, they told that story so many times.

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But we don't know exactly what happened.

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So they left Jin on the hill?

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And someone...

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found her and put her somewhere?

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I don't really recall.

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Mom, sit here.

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Okay. The lights are too strong.

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Can you recall the details of Jin's birth?

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She's two years younger than you.

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I conceived her the year after your birth.

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When delivery got closer,
my guts feeling told me：

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It's going to be a girl again.

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How did you know it?

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I wasn't sure, but felt it was a baby girl.

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No scanning back then.

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So I talked to your dad.

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One-Child Policy was at its height.

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So we decided...

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that I would have an abortion.

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Then people said

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"How could you carry such a late abortion?"

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But I decided to go ahead

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because we couldn't have another baby girl.

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Can you tell me more

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about that abortion in Xingan Town?

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We went there.

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Didn't your mom already tell you?

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Yes, but I'd like to hear it from you.

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She must've said it all.

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I'd like to hear your version.

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Mom might not recall everything.

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She knows it better.

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Just tell me whatever you remember.

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Jin... she was a tough baby.

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Your mom got two injections.

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But Jin survived it all.

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I was so scared,

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what if...

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if it was a boy?

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We would've regretted it to death.

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We were told that some herb

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could help the baby survive the injections.

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I drank a lot of it.

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I was taking the herb while
receiving the injections.

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I'm not sure if that is why.

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But the next day, I gave
birth to Jin at 5am.

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She survived the abortion. Gosh!

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We heard her cry.

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The doctor said:

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Now, what do we do?

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Do you want her? If not,
throw her in that trash.

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Our mind was blank.

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We didn't know what to do.

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''Festivals' Visit'' is a tradition in Jiangxi. To show her filial piety, a daughter takes her husband and kids to visit
her parents offering them gifts and money, on three important occasions: Dragon Boat, Mid-Autumn and Spring Festivals.

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Tell her not to come. She
doesn't have much money.

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She didn't mention the red packet.

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She offered money every time.

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She knows that you won't take it.

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She said that she'd bring some fruit.

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How can I take her money
when her life is so hard?

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She'll bring a durian and a box of milk.

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Mom, just tell her, if you
don't want her to come.

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Come on! She didn't say she'd come.

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I find you pretty difficult.

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She asked Qiong to tell you.

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Why Qiong? Why not telling me herself?

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You idiot! Is telling
you directly more fancy?

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Stop making troubles!

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What do you mean? Am I making trouble?

271
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No wonder no one likes you.

272
00:22:48,540 --> 00:22:50,420
Yes, no one likes me.

273
00:22:51,460 --> 00:22:53,460
Mr. Nice Guy.

274
00:22:53,460 --> 00:22:56,980
You are going crazy!

275
00:23:22,970 --> 00:23:24,790
- Hi Auntie! - Hi!

276
00:23:25,570 --> 00:23:26,890
Why was the door closed?

277
00:23:26,890 --> 00:23:27,600
Hi, Xi.

278
00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:28,560
It's noisy outside.

279
00:23:30,770 --> 00:23:32,700
- Where is Sui? - He is coming.

280
00:23:33,060 --> 00:23:35,600
Let's take off the coat, baby.

281
00:23:36,150 --> 00:23:37,300
Hi, Auntie!

282
00:23:40,100 --> 00:23:42,010
Want some longans, Qiong?

283
00:23:42,050 --> 00:23:43,140
Yes, sure.

284
00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:46,070
They're pretty good.

285
00:23:51,930 --> 00:23:53,890
You want to walk?

286
00:24:12,380 --> 00:24:14,290
She's alive. Do you keep her?

287
00:24:14,340 --> 00:24:16,120
I said: "Of course I'll keep her."

288
00:24:16,390 --> 00:24:17,820
But it was a girl.

289
00:24:17,950 --> 00:24:20,250
I wouldn't throw her
away since she was alive.

290
00:24:20,590 --> 00:24:22,720
Of course, we'll keep her.

291
00:24:22,770 --> 00:24:25,150
We couldn't kill her.

292
00:24:25,450 --> 00:24:27,110
The doctor told us to dress her.

293
00:24:27,150 --> 00:24:29,740
I was too weak to get up after labor.

294
00:24:30,330 --> 00:24:31,710
The baby was so alive.

295
00:24:31,860 --> 00:24:36,210
I told your dad to wrap
her in napkins or blankets.

296
00:24:36,470 --> 00:24:39,190
And I had a nap.

297
00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:40,990
I napped on the labor bed.

298
00:24:40,990 --> 00:24:44,700
Your dad wrapped her up
and put her on the bed.

299
00:24:44,750 --> 00:24:49,380
I slept a lot before I could dress her.

300
00:24:49,450 --> 00:24:52,350
I had baby clothes with
me, in case it survived.

301
00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:54,020
I was prepared.

302
00:24:54,530 --> 00:24:56,950
Did you look at the baby？

303
00:24:57,150 --> 00:24:59,150
Of course I did.

304
00:25:00,010 --> 00:25:01,630
What did she look like？

305
00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:09,810
She looked quite like you.

306
00:25:10,330 --> 00:25:12,780
How was Jin physically?

307
00:25:12,870 --> 00:25:14,110
She was fine.

308
00:25:14,250 --> 00:25:18,350
Your dad asked the doctor if
the injections harmed the baby.

309
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:20,940
And if it had, was there any antidote?

310
00:25:21,020 --> 00:25:23,690
But the baby was fine.

311
00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:28,350
There was an aborted
newborn in the same room.

312
00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:30,140
A seven month-old big boy

313
00:25:30,140 --> 00:25:33,230
being casually placed under the bed.

314
00:25:33,940 --> 00:25:37,150
- Was he alive? - No, he was dead.

315
00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:40,740
Jin was the only one who survived.

316
00:25:41,150 --> 00:25:44,840
We had to find a place to hide her.

317
00:25:45,620 --> 00:25:47,670
We couldn't take her home.

318
00:25:49,450 --> 00:25:56,070
One-Child Policy was in the Chinese Constitution since
1982. The 1990s were the harshest decade of the policy.

319
00:25:56,420 --> 00:26:00,920
My elder sister, me and our little sister
were born in 1990, 1992 and 1994 respectively.

320
00:26:01,510 --> 00:26:11,840
Mom's elder brother, my third uncle, has been a village official since
1996. He was in charge of the local implementation of One-Child Policy.

321
00:26:12,710 --> 00:26:15,080
Mid-1990s was the harshest of all time.

322
00:26:15,110 --> 00:26:18,370
You parents had to hide away.

323
00:26:18,370 --> 00:26:20,620
Nobody was supposed to see them.

324
00:26:20,620 --> 00:26:21,980
They would've been arrested.

325
00:26:21,980 --> 00:26:25,080
Back then, agreeing or not,
you would be sterilized.

326
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:27,080
It was a terrible period.

327
00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:33,260
They would take your pigs away,
torn down your house, and so on.

328
00:26:33,260 --> 00:26:34,720
It was very violent.

329
00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:35,880
Were you part of it?

330
00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:37,220
I did.

331
00:26:37,220 --> 00:26:38,220
You did?

332
00:26:38,220 --> 00:26:40,850
Take away pigs, tear down houses.

333
00:26:41,890 --> 00:26:43,020
I did it all.

334
00:26:43,020 --> 00:26:44,140
Damn it!

335
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:47,350
It was our duty.

336
00:26:47,350 --> 00:26:49,770
We had annual quota of women to sterilize

337
00:26:49,770 --> 00:26:52,190
and how much fine to collect.

338
00:26:52,190 --> 00:26:54,550
All was hard-core stuff to deal with.

339
00:26:55,070 --> 00:27:00,870
It eased up these years. I
arrested some few years ago.

340
00:27:00,870 --> 00:27:03,790
When was the best time to catch people?

341
00:27:03,790 --> 00:27:06,370
Before day-breaking.

342
00:27:06,370 --> 00:27:06,870
What?

343
00:27:06,870 --> 00:27:11,840
Before day-breaking, about
3 to 5 in the morning.

344
00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:14,510
You made inspection everyday？

345
00:27:14,510 --> 00:27:15,470
No.

346
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:18,680
It depends.

347
00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:24,310
Sterilization is affected by weather.

348
00:27:26,180 --> 00:27:31,270
When temperature is high,
the wound would be inflamed.

349
00:27:31,270 --> 00:27:34,530
And it affected busy farming seasons

350
00:27:34,530 --> 00:27:38,770
when people were sowing rice or harvesting.

351
00:27:39,270 --> 00:27:41,310
So it depends.

352
00:27:41,310 --> 00:27:42,910
But my mom was sterilized

353
00:27:42,910 --> 00:27:44,910
during the busy farming season.

354
00:27:45,180 --> 00:27:47,850
It was very hard then.

355
00:27:48,110 --> 00:27:51,700
The Policy was implemented
very harshly then.

356
00:27:56,910 --> 00:27:59,040
Back then, we all knew that

357
00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:01,160
One-Child Policy was a national policy.

358
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:03,460
It was inescapable.

359
00:30:15,450 --> 00:30:17,060
Wash your hands!

360
00:30:19,290 --> 00:30:21,420
What are we having for dinner?

361
00:30:24,460 --> 00:30:25,320
Mom!

362
00:30:25,500 --> 00:30:28,250
Eggplants, what else?

363
00:30:28,620 --> 00:30:30,620
We finished the beans.

364
00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:35,210
I'll do seedling work tomorrow.
Can you look after my son?

365
00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:43,540
Qiong, bring my hat over.

366
00:31:07,260 --> 00:31:08,640
You throw it over there.

367
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:12,160
What? I want to be with you.

368
00:31:17,410 --> 00:31:20,450
It won't be so hot in the field with boots.

369
00:31:26,940 --> 00:31:31,150
The simplest things are seedling-throwing

370
00:31:31,420 --> 00:31:32,880
and harvesting.

371
00:31:34,230 --> 00:31:35,800
That's why

372
00:31:35,850 --> 00:31:37,690
we are farmers.

373
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:41,330
It's not you farming.

374
00:31:42,290 --> 00:31:44,370
It's my dad.

375
00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:58,510
I remember somebody

376
00:31:58,510 --> 00:32:00,550
said to me a few times:

377
00:32:02,310 --> 00:32:03,710
You work hard here

378
00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:06,710
while your two sisters are
having fun in the city.

379
00:32:09,110 --> 00:32:10,700
I said none of my business.

380
00:32:11,730 --> 00:32:12,970
Who said it?

381
00:32:13,110 --> 00:32:14,780
I don't remember.

382
00:32:15,450 --> 00:32:18,080
Why abandoning you, and
not your elder sister?

383
00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:20,410
They said that?

384
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:23,420
Yeah, many people asked.

385
00:32:25,170 --> 00:32:26,670
I thought about it too.

386
00:32:27,590 --> 00:32:32,260
Why abandoning the third,
and not the second?

387
00:32:38,350 --> 00:32:41,140
Because the policy wasn't
so harsh at that time?

388
00:32:44,650 --> 00:32:46,610
I don't know.

389
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:56,750
Why do my feet sink so deeply?

390
00:32:57,930 --> 00:33:01,460
The soil is sticky.

391
00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:08,020
Luckily I was sent here.

392
00:33:10,230 --> 00:33:11,280
Why?

393
00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:14,070
I'd be miserable in your home.

394
00:33:14,070 --> 00:33:15,670
Hard to say.

395
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:17,750
What do you mean?

396
00:33:18,710 --> 00:33:22,300
Your relationship with
them wouldn't be so bad.

397
00:33:22,790 --> 00:33:23,790
Right?

398
00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:28,380
You might take my place and I take yours.

399
00:33:31,110 --> 00:33:35,150
If you took my place, your
mom might like you better.

400
00:33:36,470 --> 00:33:41,470
If I were you, I'd be the truly you.

401
00:33:43,060 --> 00:33:45,910
Yeah, but you'd be good at study also.

402
00:34:06,030 --> 00:34:09,070
You sink. Don't bend down. It's tiring.

403
00:34:11,980 --> 00:34:14,270
He isn't going to sleep.

404
00:34:14,530 --> 00:34:17,640
He is so naughty, damn it!

405
00:34:26,580 --> 00:34:28,780
He cried for more than an hour.

406
00:34:29,020 --> 00:34:30,950
No, about two hours. So annoying!

407
00:34:31,140 --> 00:34:32,390
How sweet your son is.

408
00:34:32,490 --> 00:34:35,020
Beating him didn't work at all.

409
00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:37,660
So I just let him cry.

410
00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:40,890
His grandma came back at 2pm.

411
00:34:40,890 --> 00:34:43,890
You spoil him

412
00:34:43,890 --> 00:34:45,390
to be so naughty.

413
00:34:45,390 --> 00:34:46,600
Was I like this too?

414
00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:47,720
You cried for snacks.

415
00:34:47,720 --> 00:34:49,190
No. You cried for money.

416
00:34:49,190 --> 00:34:50,310
Money or trouble.

417
00:34:50,310 --> 00:34:51,810
Money could stop your tears.

418
00:34:51,810 --> 00:34:55,610
If there was no money, you
would cry day and night.

419
00:34:55,980 --> 00:34:57,820
Did I cry that much?

420
00:34:58,100 --> 00:34:59,650
Of course!

421
00:35:00,020 --> 00:35:01,980
You cried and stamped your feet.

422
00:35:03,150 --> 00:35:05,570
You never beat me.

423
00:35:06,870 --> 00:35:08,270
Did you?

424
00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:11,520
You never cried without reasons.

425
00:35:11,870 --> 00:35:14,660
You got money, you stopped.

426
00:35:15,310 --> 00:35:16,770
You cried for snacks.

427
00:35:16,870 --> 00:35:19,210
He cries for no reason.

428
00:35:21,050 --> 00:35:23,930
I'm about to fall asleep here.

429
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:26,050
Go to sleep.

430
00:35:30,630 --> 00:35:31,810
I will have a rest as well.

431
00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:34,370
Taking care of such a kid will kill you.

432
00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:44,310
I expect to go through
your same experience.

433
00:35:44,310 --> 00:35:47,480
Now I'm raising my own child.

434
00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:52,820
Raising you almost killed us.

435
00:35:54,230 --> 00:35:56,400
Your brother Jun was easy.

436
00:35:56,650 --> 00:35:58,990
You were troublesome. Damn!

437
00:36:17,300 --> 00:36:19,250
What happened as you left the hospital?

438
00:36:19,510 --> 00:36:25,510
We had nowhere to hide, so we
turned to your eldest aunt.

439
00:36:26,760 --> 00:36:31,350
She didn't like me having another girl.

440
00:36:31,730 --> 00:36:33,420
She always looked down upon us.

441
00:36:33,690 --> 00:36:35,900
Why did she?

442
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:38,820
Maybe because I hadn't had a son yet.

443
00:36:39,110 --> 00:36:41,950
My eldest sister is that kind of woman.

444
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:43,950
She only likes boys.

445
00:36:44,100 --> 00:36:48,350
She had been disappointed

446
00:36:48,450 --> 00:36:50,570
because you are all girls.

447
00:36:50,870 --> 00:36:52,570
That's true.

448
00:36:52,830 --> 00:36:55,660
Who does she despise, you or mom?

449
00:36:55,790 --> 00:36:57,920
Of course your mom.

450
00:37:01,130 --> 00:37:05,160
After staying in her house for a night,

451
00:37:05,510 --> 00:37:06,930
we went to a restaurant

452
00:37:06,930 --> 00:37:10,000
owned by your dad's friend.

453
00:37:10,170 --> 00:37:11,670
We hid there for a few nights

454
00:37:11,770 --> 00:37:14,650
until things got worse.

455
00:37:14,900 --> 00:37:16,860
We decided

456
00:37:16,860 --> 00:37:18,940
to send the baby girl to a family

457
00:37:18,940 --> 00:37:21,650
who already had a son.

458
00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:28,990
It was an orange garden near by.

459
00:37:29,950 --> 00:37:33,120
We carried the baby there and put 30 yuan

460
00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:35,960
along with her birth date on a note.

461
00:37:42,950 --> 00:37:45,910
Is the orange garden still there?

462
00:37:45,910 --> 00:37:47,950
It must have changed a lot.

463
00:37:47,950 --> 00:37:49,060
No trees anymore,

464
00:37:49,060 --> 00:37:51,700
to give way to real estate development.

465
00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:56,910
I remember it's in that direction.

466
00:37:57,020 --> 00:37:58,530
Yes.

467
00:37:59,140 --> 00:38:01,100
Somewhere near Hu Kao Fang.

468
00:38:01,130 --> 00:38:02,550
I know it.

469
00:38:02,790 --> 00:38:04,920
Not far from Mao Ernao.

470
00:38:05,540 --> 00:38:08,130
And near the vocational school.

471
00:38:08,150 --> 00:38:09,980
That way.

472
00:38:11,570 --> 00:38:12,930
Right!

473
00:38:12,930 --> 00:38:13,970
I know it.

474
00:38:13,970 --> 00:38:16,350
There is no orangery here.

475
00:38:16,350 --> 00:38:17,640
Let's go further.

476
00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:18,850
Near my high school?

477
00:38:18,850 --> 00:38:19,930
Yes.

478
00:38:19,930 --> 00:38:21,680
We were there at midnight.

479
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:26,060
Let's find the school. It's near Mao Ernao.

480
00:38:35,110 --> 00:38:38,700
It used to be a huge orangery.

481
00:38:39,530 --> 00:38:40,530
Over there.

482
00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:44,020
Some of the trees are still there.

483
00:38:46,290 --> 00:38:48,460
This should be the right place.

484
00:38:48,580 --> 00:38:51,920
Qiong, I probably placed the baby here.

485
00:38:52,950 --> 00:38:54,990
If not this house, then that one.

486
00:38:58,220 --> 00:39:01,300
Just around here.

487
00:39:05,060 --> 00:39:08,650
There was a dog at the door.

488
00:39:08,910 --> 00:39:10,910
I put the baby down and ran away.

489
00:39:11,230 --> 00:39:13,920
I'm sure this is it.

490
00:39:14,180 --> 00:39:15,320
We found it.

491
00:39:15,620 --> 00:39:17,280
We remember it right.

492
00:39:17,410 --> 00:39:20,370
Those are the newly built roads.

493
00:39:48,110 --> 00:39:50,720
Days later, we thought
she had been taken away.

494
00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:54,200
So we came back. She wasn't there.

495
00:39:54,450 --> 00:39:56,450
I thought she was adopted

496
00:39:56,600 --> 00:39:58,230
and I felt a bit relieved.

497
00:39:58,860 --> 00:40:02,670
Later, Teacher Zhou came

498
00:40:02,950 --> 00:40:05,050
and said:

499
00:40:05,370 --> 00:40:09,580
I saw a baby abandoned
in front of our school.

500
00:40:09,580 --> 00:40:10,450
Alas!

501
00:40:11,050 --> 00:40:14,720
It was a bitter pill to swallow.

502
00:40:15,020 --> 00:40:18,060
He said the baby was there for days.

503
00:40:19,720 --> 00:40:23,470
I was very upset. The baby
may not survive this time.

504
00:40:24,070 --> 00:40:26,830
Jin was suffering all these.

505
00:40:27,420 --> 00:40:31,800
Maybe they found it hard to bear
and put her at the school gate.

506
00:40:32,240 --> 00:40:35,240
I guess it was the orangery owner.

507
00:40:39,510 --> 00:40:45,600
Xiajiang Vocational School

508
00:40:46,310 --> 00:40:48,270
Since no one picked the baby,

509
00:40:48,390 --> 00:40:53,720
they asked a teacher to take her
to the municipality government.

510
00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:55,570
How did you find her?

511
00:40:55,630 --> 00:41:00,920
We didn't. He went shopping
there and saw the baby.

512
00:41:01,070 --> 00:41:05,830
After all, people gossip.

513
00:41:05,830 --> 00:41:07,960
A baby girl was abandoned.

514
00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:11,080
It happened a lot.

515
00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:14,420
I heard of many babies abandoned.

516
00:41:14,420 --> 00:41:17,550
A relative asked me to take
his abandoned baby. I didn't.

517
00:41:17,550 --> 00:41:20,180
He waited until someone took it.

518
00:41:20,180 --> 00:41:22,430
It was a relief to know that.

519
00:41:22,430 --> 00:41:24,810
Many babies died in those days...

520
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:28,270
on the street.

521
00:41:29,310 --> 00:41:32,310
Very few people dared to take in babies.

522
00:41:32,310 --> 00:41:36,080
Xiajiang Municipality Government

523
00:41:36,980 --> 00:41:39,070
At that time

524
00:41:39,070 --> 00:41:41,660
I was with your eldest uncle.

525
00:41:41,660 --> 00:41:43,280
I was...

526
00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:44,870
right across the street.

527
00:41:44,870 --> 00:41:46,410
Standing there.

528
00:41:46,410 --> 00:41:49,660
I asked your uncle to look at the baby.

529
00:41:49,660 --> 00:41:53,420
Because I saw the box.

530
00:41:53,610 --> 00:41:56,490
All of a sudden, my
tears were running down.

531
00:41:56,590 --> 00:41:59,050
It's really over. What should we do?

532
00:41:59,660 --> 00:42:01,950
I took a second look.

533
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:06,530
I went to tell your grandma.

534
00:42:07,460 --> 00:42:09,830
She's still alive. I saw her.

535
00:42:09,860 --> 00:42:11,740
Why didn't you bring her home?

536
00:42:11,740 --> 00:42:13,870
How did I dare?

537
00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:15,960
I took a quick look and rushed home.

538
00:42:15,980 --> 00:42:21,900
Then your grandma forced
your uncle to take her.

539
00:42:22,490 --> 00:42:24,490
She knew it was too much for me.

540
00:42:25,380 --> 00:42:28,840
Back then, Jun was little.

541
00:42:29,020 --> 00:42:31,070
I was very sick.

542
00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:32,860
Your grandma told him:

543
00:42:32,860 --> 00:42:36,240
You have to save her life!

544
00:42:36,240 --> 00:42:37,650
You have to!

545
00:42:38,380 --> 00:42:40,000
What could you do?

546
00:42:40,250 --> 00:42:42,380
Watching her starve to death?

547
00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:47,050
He took her home under pressure.

548
00:42:48,150 --> 00:42:51,020
I took her from here.

549
00:42:51,850 --> 00:42:53,480
I was on my bike then.

550
00:42:55,720 --> 00:42:57,430
Jun was on my bike.

551
00:42:57,480 --> 00:43:00,300
You went to buy some pig feed.

552
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:03,310
We kept many pigs back then.

553
00:43:05,510 --> 00:43:07,440
I got there.

554
00:43:09,740 --> 00:43:12,830
And there she was, the crying baby.

555
00:43:14,820 --> 00:43:16,280
Oh, she was starving.

556
00:43:16,730 --> 00:43:18,070
And it was freezing.

557
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:20,080
Shit! Her toes were all rotten.

558
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:21,910
It was pretty cold.

559
00:43:22,210 --> 00:43:26,420
She had a little formula milk.

560
00:43:27,070 --> 00:43:28,520
She was soaked in urine.

561
00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:31,080
So I asked Jun:

562
00:43:31,130 --> 00:43:33,050
You'd like to take the baby girl home?

563
00:43:33,630 --> 00:43:35,550
Yes!

564
00:43:39,390 --> 00:43:42,310
She was out there for about a week.

565
00:43:42,750 --> 00:43:45,340
The first time I saw her

566
00:43:46,140 --> 00:43:49,430
she was as small as a fist.
I wasn't able to hold her.

567
00:43:49,900 --> 00:43:55,120
Any water or milk to
drink during that week?

568
00:43:55,490 --> 00:43:57,650
There was some water.

569
00:43:57,770 --> 00:44:01,770
And glucose and formula
left inside her box.

570
00:44:02,030 --> 00:44:03,900
I saw an old lady feeding her.

571
00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:07,430
The glucose and milk powder
were tied tightly together.

572
00:44:07,430 --> 00:44:08,430
Who was that?

573
00:44:08,430 --> 00:44:09,260
Just an old lady

574
00:44:09,260 --> 00:44:11,350
who lived nearby.

575
00:44:11,350 --> 00:44:12,610
Near the town hall?

576
00:44:12,610 --> 00:44:13,140
Yes.

577
00:44:13,140 --> 00:44:15,180
Do you know her?

578
00:44:15,250 --> 00:44:16,550
No.

579
00:44:16,550 --> 00:44:18,420
Did she feed the baby everyday?

580
00:44:18,420 --> 00:44:24,680
No idea. I saw her feeding the
baby with a bottle that day.

581
00:44:24,890 --> 00:44:27,600
She was out there for exactly one week.

582
00:44:27,650 --> 00:44:30,360
She was rotten

583
00:44:30,390 --> 00:44:33,270
with holes in her feet.

584
00:44:34,610 --> 00:44:37,110
She was destined to survive.

585
00:44:37,110 --> 00:44:39,400
Even being starved and cold for so long…

586
00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:41,660
She fell sick everyday after getting home.

587
00:44:42,180 --> 00:44:44,890
I asked the doctor if she could survive.

588
00:44:46,260 --> 00:44:48,380
He said no problem.

589
00:44:48,450 --> 00:44:49,960
She got a loud voice

590
00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:51,790
and she cried out.

591
00:44:51,790 --> 00:44:53,670
So she could survive anyway.

592
00:44:54,500 --> 00:44:58,290
He also said that if her
voice sounded like a cat's

593
00:44:58,360 --> 00:45:00,700
then it would've been hopeless.

594
00:45:01,260 --> 00:45:03,010
So she will be fine.

595
00:45:34,670 --> 00:45:37,090
Is that snake gone?

596
00:45:37,270 --> 00:45:39,440
Run! It's going to rain.

597
00:45:39,460 --> 00:45:41,470
It's coming very soon.

598
00:45:44,970 --> 00:45:47,640
Dad, turn off your phone!

599
00:46:35,780 --> 00:46:37,240
Mommy!

600
00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:40,350
Yes!

601
00:46:44,700 --> 00:46:46,860
My feet hurt.

602
00:47:18,460 --> 00:47:20,880
People told her she was adopted.

603
00:47:20,900 --> 00:47:23,730
No! My mom gave birth to me!

604
00:47:24,490 --> 00:47:30,730
She asked, why people say I'm
Uncle's child and I look like Qiong?

605
00:47:31,290 --> 00:47:35,260
I said Yes, you are Uncle's child.

606
00:47:45,630 --> 00:47:53,260
What's her response when she learned
that you were not her biological parents?

607
00:47:55,930 --> 00:47:58,140
She couldn't believe it.

608
00:47:59,310 --> 00:48:00,810
What did she say?

609
00:48:01,730 --> 00:48:05,200
So I was born in Uncle's
family. Why did they abandon me?

610
00:48:05,610 --> 00:48:07,990
I told her that Uncle had wanted a son.

611
00:48:09,590 --> 00:48:12,770
So girls are less humans?

612
00:48:12,950 --> 00:48:14,870
He wanted a boy.

613
00:48:21,150 --> 00:48:24,410
Your mom said something…

614
00:48:25,710 --> 00:48:29,130
I hated her, maybe not,
but I was really upset.

615
00:48:29,180 --> 00:48:32,230
I wonder why she would say that.

616
00:48:34,520 --> 00:48:37,400
I was so sad, crying and crying.

617
00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:39,390
You were not at home.

618
00:48:40,310 --> 00:48:41,810
You were in high school.

619
00:48:41,810 --> 00:48:42,940
What is it?

620
00:48:42,940 --> 00:48:46,480
I didn't tell your mom
about my mid-term test.

621
00:48:47,230 --> 00:48:49,400
I felt…

622
00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:50,570
I was a bit afraid.

623
00:48:50,570 --> 00:48:52,410
What your mom did made me more...

624
00:48:52,410 --> 00:48:53,660
Actually...

625
00:48:53,660 --> 00:48:55,660
I am afraid of them.

626
00:48:55,660 --> 00:48:59,410
Every time I visit you, I
feel… Maybe it's not fear,

627
00:48:59,460 --> 00:49:02,050
but I have mixed feelings.

628
00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:07,050
I didn't tell her about my mid-term test.

629
00:49:07,050 --> 00:49:09,420
I did give her a hint.

630
00:49:09,420 --> 00:49:11,050
I was not good at test.

631
00:49:11,050 --> 00:49:15,800
My classmate Ting's grandpa

632
00:49:16,030 --> 00:49:18,040
came and told your dad

633
00:49:18,060 --> 00:49:21,400
about a parent-teacher meeting.

634
00:49:21,760 --> 00:49:24,890
I thought he must know
it, so I didn't told him.

635
00:49:25,990 --> 00:49:27,660
When your mom heard, she said:

636
00:49:29,530 --> 00:49:31,990
A dog is more grateful than you

637
00:49:33,070 --> 00:49:34,910
swinging his tail…

638
00:49:34,910 --> 00:49:36,580
She said something like this.

639
00:49:36,580 --> 00:49:38,200
Pretty much the same.

640
00:49:38,200 --> 00:49:40,160
My god!

641
00:49:40,910 --> 00:49:43,960
I was heart-broken hearing it.

642
00:49:46,500 --> 00:49:49,670
How old was I? Twelve or eleven.

643
00:49:49,770 --> 00:49:51,820
Probably twelve.

644
00:49:53,300 --> 00:49:56,260
You know how lashed out I felt?

645
00:49:58,600 --> 00:50:01,430
I was living with you back then.

646
00:50:02,730 --> 00:50:05,150
I recall that

647
00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:07,800
your mom told my mom that

648
00:50:08,060 --> 00:50:10,690
I hid away from her, I didn't talk to her.

649
00:50:10,690 --> 00:50:12,440
I don't have much to say to her,

650
00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:13,360
so I avoid her.

651
00:50:13,360 --> 00:50:15,410
Your mom told my parents that

652
00:50:15,410 --> 00:50:18,950
I hide away upstairs
and refuse to see them.

653
00:50:20,070 --> 00:50:22,280
I wouldn't even watch TV at your home.

654
00:50:32,050 --> 00:50:35,510
We could earn some money
by selling the meat.

655
00:50:35,510 --> 00:50:37,720
I want you to cook for me.

656
00:50:37,720 --> 00:50:39,390
I leave tomorrow.

657
00:50:40,970 --> 00:50:45,390
I have to check on the cow.
I heard it's dying of heat.

658
00:50:47,350 --> 00:50:49,650
Go earn your money.

659
00:50:49,650 --> 00:50:50,270
Jin!

660
00:50:50,270 --> 00:50:51,230
Yes?

661
00:50:51,230 --> 00:50:52,530
What's he up to?

662
00:50:52,530 --> 00:50:54,240
Earning money.

663
00:50:55,150 --> 00:50:57,030
Earning money.

664
00:50:58,820 --> 00:51:00,080
Where is he going?

665
00:51:02,410 --> 00:51:04,450
He said the cow was dying.

666
00:51:04,910 --> 00:51:07,080
The cow is dying. It's too hot.

667
00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:12,210
Really? Dad, if it's dead,
get me some beef, I pay it.

668
00:51:12,290 --> 00:51:14,170
You got it!

669
00:51:15,010 --> 00:51:19,680
Mom, your husband will make money.

670
00:51:20,890 --> 00:51:22,390
What for?

671
00:51:25,390 --> 00:51:27,350
Where are you going?

672
00:51:27,400 --> 00:51:28,610
To check a dying cow.

673
00:51:29,230 --> 00:51:30,520
To the store.

674
00:51:32,780 --> 00:51:34,620
They called me.

675
00:51:38,740 --> 00:51:41,990
My dad will get me everything I want.

676
00:51:43,550 --> 00:51:45,430
He never hits me.

677
00:51:46,080 --> 00:51:47,750
I remember once.

678
00:51:47,750 --> 00:51:49,420
I was little.

679
00:51:49,420 --> 00:51:52,000
My brother Jun was in jail.
No one could herd cattle.

680
00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:53,500
I bargained with Dad.

681
00:51:54,250 --> 00:51:56,990
There were few channels on our TV.

682
00:51:57,340 --> 00:51:59,700
I said, get me a satellite
TV, then I herd cattle.

683
00:51:59,700 --> 00:52:00,470
Okay!

684
00:52:00,470 --> 00:52:01,720
He agreed.

685
00:52:01,720 --> 00:52:04,850
Then I asked him to sell the ox.

686
00:52:04,850 --> 00:52:07,180
Because the ox kicked.

687
00:52:07,180 --> 00:52:09,640
So my dad sold the ox.

688
00:52:09,770 --> 00:52:12,860
Since then, we've kept only cows.

689
00:52:15,110 --> 00:52:17,740
My dad never says no to me.

690
00:52:25,620 --> 00:52:27,450
Grandpa is just playing with you.

691
00:52:29,250 --> 00:52:30,250
Let's go, Yang.

692
00:52:30,250 --> 00:52:31,540
Like he played with Yang.

693
00:52:31,540 --> 00:52:32,500
Go home.

694
00:52:39,970 --> 00:52:41,840
Yang, you have a little brother.

695
00:52:49,310 --> 00:52:50,730
What's wrong with it?

696
00:52:52,310 --> 00:52:55,400
What are you making this fancy for?

697
00:53:00,740 --> 00:53:03,520
Just hang it out!

698
00:53:04,070 --> 00:53:05,800
You are so stubborn.

699
00:53:06,120 --> 00:53:07,320
Mom!

700
00:53:07,580 --> 00:53:12,370
This hanger is too long. Why
not using the smaller ones?

701
00:53:12,830 --> 00:53:14,170
Don't be picky.

702
00:53:14,220 --> 00:53:17,350
It stretched Xi's shorts.

703
00:53:20,130 --> 00:53:22,570
My mom is very nice to me.

704
00:53:23,250 --> 00:53:27,420
Jin, what do you want for lunch at school?

705
00:53:27,680 --> 00:53:31,150
She asked me every morning.

706
00:53:31,480 --> 00:53:35,110
All year around.

707
00:53:35,650 --> 00:53:37,320
Even now

708
00:53:37,370 --> 00:53:39,280
she would still ask.

709
00:53:39,600 --> 00:53:42,730
Your mom asked only you, not me.

710
00:53:43,110 --> 00:53:44,700
It makes me feel…It's hard to say.

711
00:53:44,750 --> 00:53:47,000
I recall my mom asking me.

712
00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:48,980
You recall your mom did the same?

713
00:53:49,010 --> 00:53:49,860
Yes.

714
00:54:29,110 --> 00:54:30,970
Should we fry the eggs first?

715
00:54:31,890 --> 00:54:33,670
My parents provide the best.

716
00:54:33,990 --> 00:54:35,600
Sui's eggs

717
00:54:36,010 --> 00:54:38,430
are not as fresh as these.

718
00:54:42,660 --> 00:54:45,790
For settlement, a half is acceptable.

719
00:54:46,780 --> 00:54:48,950
He wants you to take the money now?

720
00:54:52,380 --> 00:54:54,300
Ask for a receipt.

721
00:54:55,130 --> 00:54:56,550
How?

722
00:54:56,820 --> 00:55:01,880
Just write down clearly
the money you accept.

723
00:55:03,120 --> 00:55:04,870
Write the amount there.

724
00:55:04,890 --> 00:55:06,950
Just write exactly the amount he gives

725
00:55:07,200 --> 00:55:09,030
and how much he still owns you.

726
00:55:10,600 --> 00:55:13,190
You don't know how to write a receipt?

727
00:55:14,760 --> 00:55:18,520
Half… these Xingan people are really tough.

728
00:55:19,610 --> 00:55:23,250
Don't you collect it for
every kitchen ventilator sold?

729
00:55:24,440 --> 00:55:30,030
My neighbor hasn't had any
money for the past two years.

730
00:55:30,660 --> 00:55:32,900
Tell them to pay in one-time.

731
00:55:33,210 --> 00:55:35,000
It's easier said than done.

732
00:55:40,660 --> 00:55:42,120
Jin's father was like

733
00:55:42,120 --> 00:55:43,580
after getting drunk.

734
00:55:43,580 --> 00:55:45,460
Fuck! They always ask for money…

735
00:55:45,790 --> 00:55:49,800
Sui never calls himself. He
asks Jin to call me for money.

736
00:55:50,590 --> 00:55:52,920
They borrow money everywhere.

737
00:56:09,010 --> 00:56:12,810
I am not like Li, though
we are both married.

738
00:56:13,410 --> 00:56:15,490
She married a rich man.

739
00:56:19,150 --> 00:56:23,820
I'm different. Your life is always better.

740
00:56:30,070 --> 00:56:32,870
Uncle, how much did you lend to Jin?

741
00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:35,700
Many thousands.

742
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:42,120
They borrow here and there.

743
00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:46,250
From everyone they know.

744
00:56:46,860 --> 00:56:49,980
They asked Nan and Lin?

745
00:56:50,030 --> 00:56:51,330
Ten thousand from Lin.

746
00:56:51,410 --> 00:56:53,240
Li asked Jin what's the money for.

747
00:56:53,300 --> 00:56:54,880
Jin kept silent.

748
00:56:55,050 --> 00:56:56,670
Not a word.

749
00:56:56,880 --> 00:56:59,170
Hell, her own sister can't talk with her.

750
00:56:59,270 --> 00:57:01,900
When you ask, she would groan.

751
00:57:02,090 --> 00:57:06,600
And she would keep silent in a sulk.

752
00:57:07,530 --> 00:57:09,620
Many of my classmates were adopted.

753
00:57:09,790 --> 00:57:11,330
Their biological parents

754
00:57:11,450 --> 00:57:13,240
are nice to them.

755
00:57:13,270 --> 00:57:17,680
I haven't felt their goodness to me,
though I lived with them many years.

756
00:57:22,210 --> 00:57:24,460
How did you know about your classmates?

757
00:57:26,260 --> 00:57:28,320
They told me in school.

758
00:57:28,470 --> 00:57:32,060
They ignored their biological
parents, but they treated them well.

759
00:57:32,090 --> 00:57:34,590
They don't call them dad and mom.

760
00:57:35,730 --> 00:57:38,320
Now they are married and moms as well.

761
00:57:42,690 --> 00:57:46,840
It sounds like a soap opera, but it's true.

762
00:57:47,430 --> 00:57:51,390
They make me feel cold,
how would I like them?

763
00:57:52,410 --> 00:57:55,590
Li is the same, she is cold as well.

764
00:57:55,720 --> 00:58:01,000
After having my family, I felt an
ever greater distance with them.

765
00:58:05,530 --> 00:58:08,580
I really don't know how to help her.

766
00:58:09,790 --> 00:58:12,900
Giving her money doesn't mean help.

767
00:58:13,370 --> 00:58:15,290
It may even mean harm.

768
00:58:16,780 --> 00:58:20,240
But she can't...

769
00:58:21,340 --> 00:58:23,930
She can't understand it.

770
00:58:27,860 --> 00:58:31,320
To her, giving money is doing her a favor.

771
00:58:31,490 --> 00:58:33,290
Not giving it...

772
00:58:36,570 --> 00:58:39,820
is like rejecting her.

773
00:58:42,910 --> 00:58:47,460
Dad and Mom hold different opinions.

774
00:58:49,290 --> 00:58:53,340
Dad is afraid that she will hate him

775
00:58:53,450 --> 00:58:55,650
if he doesn't help.

776
00:58:56,110 --> 00:59:00,650
Mom doesn't care about being hated.

777
00:59:00,950 --> 00:59:02,820
In fact,

778
00:59:03,120 --> 00:59:05,530
mom wants Jin back

779
00:59:05,930 --> 00:59:08,020
and hopes she would

780
00:59:08,050 --> 00:59:09,550
change somewhat.

781
00:59:13,310 --> 00:59:15,850
She hopes Jin grows up

782
00:59:16,660 --> 00:59:19,450
and understands them.

783
00:59:22,140 --> 00:59:25,480
I think it's hopeless.

784
00:59:27,440 --> 00:59:28,900
She doesn't know.

785
00:59:28,950 --> 00:59:31,450
She doesn't

786
00:59:32,650 --> 00:59:34,980
understand at all.

787
00:59:36,630 --> 00:59:39,260
What can we do?

788
00:59:58,090 --> 01:00:00,870
All our effort is a waste of energy.

789
01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:03,710
Now

790
01:00:04,320 --> 01:00:06,580
it's extremely difficult

791
01:00:08,820 --> 01:00:12,910
to ask her to change and understand.

792
01:00:18,370 --> 01:00:22,120
Have you thought about...

793
01:00:22,680 --> 01:00:24,370
talking to her?

794
01:00:24,470 --> 01:00:25,930
I don't want to.

795
01:00:26,180 --> 01:00:28,890
She only irritates me.

796
01:00:29,960 --> 01:00:32,330
Then how could you expect her to change?

797
01:00:32,380 --> 01:00:36,180
I don't know how. Talking
to her makes me angry.

798
01:00:37,110 --> 01:00:38,650
It only upsets me.

799
01:00:38,940 --> 01:00:40,360
You didn't try.

800
01:00:40,570 --> 01:00:41,900
I tried.

801
01:00:42,700 --> 01:00:44,620
Though not face to face.

802
01:00:56,460 --> 01:00:59,630
But she can't understand.

803
01:01:00,260 --> 01:01:04,050
She has her way.

804
01:01:05,010 --> 01:01:06,550
She looks at things

805
01:01:07,430 --> 01:01:11,370
from her perspective

806
01:01:11,680 --> 01:01:16,020
and never put herself
in other people's shoes.

807
01:01:16,310 --> 01:01:19,320
She judges

808
01:01:19,900 --> 01:01:21,670
everything

809
01:01:21,940 --> 01:01:23,530
with…

810
01:01:26,540 --> 01:01:28,670
from her point of view.

811
01:01:29,210 --> 01:01:33,220
She never asks if there is
another side of the story.

812
01:01:33,590 --> 01:01:35,090
Never.

813
01:01:36,100 --> 01:01:37,720
Jin is like this.

814
01:01:45,560 --> 01:01:46,980
She…

815
01:01:49,610 --> 01:01:54,380
She holds everything she
hears, sees or feels as true.

816
01:01:58,490 --> 01:02:04,080
Let's wait and see.
Someday she'll understand.

817
01:02:04,700 --> 01:02:07,620
It's a matter of time.

818
01:02:08,580 --> 01:02:10,750
Some day,

819
01:02:12,090 --> 01:02:14,300
but not now.

820
01:02:34,890 --> 01:02:36,350
You stayed at Jin's house?

821
01:02:36,350 --> 01:02:37,310
Yes.

822
01:02:37,360 --> 01:02:38,300
What about Sui?

823
01:02:38,590 --> 01:02:39,880
He slept on the sofa.

824
01:02:42,860 --> 01:02:44,670
We didn't sleep much.

825
01:02:45,090 --> 01:02:46,300
Their son cried a lot.

826
01:02:46,320 --> 01:02:48,030
He cried all the time?

827
01:02:49,330 --> 01:02:52,160
Look how skinny Jin is now.

828
01:02:52,370 --> 01:02:56,000
The boy cried a few times for milk.

829
01:02:56,100 --> 01:03:00,100
Sui's parents never help
with the baby. Damn!

830
01:03:15,890 --> 01:03:22,610
In 2015, Jin and Sui's shop went bankrupt.

831
01:03:39,180 --> 01:03:46,200
To help them, my father invested
in an advertising shop for them.

832
01:04:06,660 --> 01:04:07,520
Qiong.

833
01:04:07,920 --> 01:04:09,510
Where were we?

834
01:04:10,280 --> 01:04:10,950
What?

835
01:04:10,970 --> 01:04:13,180
Where were we just now?

836
01:04:14,780 --> 01:04:16,560
We were speaking of Uncle.

837
01:04:20,130 --> 01:04:21,140
Isn't it nice?

838
01:04:22,640 --> 01:04:23,500
Did you buy it?

839
01:04:23,750 --> 01:04:24,370
Yes.

840
01:04:24,560 --> 01:04:25,560
How much is it?

841
01:04:25,920 --> 01:04:26,920
300 000 yuan.

842
01:04:27,250 --> 01:04:28,500
300 000?

843
01:04:29,060 --> 01:04:30,480
Doesn't it look good?

844
01:04:30,610 --> 01:04:31,610
Boss!

845
01:04:32,690 --> 01:04:34,770
You are the real boss.

846
01:04:40,790 --> 01:04:44,590
This is the guest room.

847
01:04:45,850 --> 01:04:48,810
Sui could live here for a while.

848
01:04:49,420 --> 01:04:50,950
I will have flooring installed.

849
01:04:53,790 --> 01:04:55,460
And it will be a nice studio.

850
01:04:55,750 --> 01:04:56,750
Of course it will.

851
01:04:58,000 --> 01:05:01,090
You got what you paid.

852
01:05:03,660 --> 01:05:05,580
You also do web design?

853
01:05:08,420 --> 01:05:11,960
We are mainly focused on advertising design

854
01:05:12,500 --> 01:05:14,470
and selling calligraphic paintings.

855
01:05:16,800 --> 01:05:17,760
Alright!

856
01:05:24,560 --> 01:05:25,810
Hold on.

857
01:05:30,200 --> 01:05:32,250
Ouch! My ears itch.

858
01:05:33,940 --> 01:05:36,400
Especially this one.

859
01:05:41,140 --> 01:05:42,350
Uncle's coming.

860
01:05:45,830 --> 01:05:47,330
Oh my God!

861
01:05:47,910 --> 01:05:48,820
Where is Sui?

862
01:05:48,870 --> 01:05:50,080
He went out.

863
01:05:51,590 --> 01:05:52,730
Have you sent it?

864
01:05:55,040 --> 01:05:59,460
Sui made it with a wrong dimension.

865
01:05:59,510 --> 01:06:01,150
What the hell is this!

866
01:06:01,380 --> 01:06:03,050
This is not the first time.

867
01:06:05,720 --> 01:06:07,810
He is so careless.

868
01:06:08,660 --> 01:06:10,660
Now I've to remake the iron frame.

869
01:06:14,020 --> 01:06:17,650
He is so unreliable and
always messes things up.

870
01:06:17,670 --> 01:06:20,580
I don't want to work
with that idiot anymore.

871
01:06:20,660 --> 01:06:23,630
He is as stupid as a pig.

872
01:06:38,790 --> 01:06:40,420
Hi Uncle!

873
01:06:41,340 --> 01:06:43,500
Is it 1.43 meters?

874
01:06:45,880 --> 01:06:49,230
If Uncle didn't manage this shop,

875
01:06:49,260 --> 01:06:51,720
we might not stay in touch anymore.

876
01:06:52,300 --> 01:06:54,170
You mean, you and my dad?

877
01:06:54,500 --> 01:06:56,340
Sui, me and your parents.

878
01:06:56,920 --> 01:06:58,870
You and us?

879
01:06:59,140 --> 01:07:03,970
Of course I will be in touch with
you, but not with Uncle and Auntie.

880
01:07:04,660 --> 01:07:06,370
Will you contact them?

881
01:07:06,440 --> 01:07:07,400
No.

882
01:07:15,340 --> 01:07:16,850
You were adopted?

883
01:07:16,850 --> 01:07:17,430
What?

884
01:07:17,430 --> 01:07:19,260
You were adopted?

885
01:07:19,260 --> 01:07:19,810
Yes.

886
01:07:20,680 --> 01:07:22,010
I was adopted.

887
01:07:22,010 --> 01:07:24,390
Adopted by an unrelated family?

888
01:07:24,390 --> 01:07:25,890
No, they are my relatives.

889
01:07:25,890 --> 01:07:26,670
Oh.

890
01:07:27,390 --> 01:07:30,400
I remember you. I guess,
you don't remember me?

891
01:07:30,400 --> 01:07:31,200
Yes.

892
01:07:33,620 --> 01:07:34,910
Does it hurt?

893
01:07:34,940 --> 01:07:35,860
Not really.

894
01:07:39,700 --> 01:07:41,320
Oh no. We must open it this way?

895
01:07:41,320 --> 01:07:43,030
How else can I install the IUD?

896
01:07:43,580 --> 01:07:44,580
Keep still.

897
01:07:49,110 --> 01:07:52,030
Can I have you take it out
from the uterus one day?

898
01:07:52,060 --> 01:07:53,020
Sure!

899
01:07:54,870 --> 01:07:56,970
I know your parents well.

900
01:07:57,130 --> 01:08:00,050
I know, that's why I asked
my sister to call you.

901
01:08:02,670 --> 01:08:04,890
"Sex selective abortion is prohibited."
Do I just take some anti-inflammatories?

902
01:08:04,890 --> 01:08:04,920
"Sex selective abortion is prohibited."

903
01:08:04,920 --> 01:08:06,410
Yes, just in case. "Sex selective
abortion is prohibited."

904
01:08:06,410 --> 01:08:13,760
"Sex selective abortion is prohibited."

905
01:08:24,090 --> 01:08:24,720
Li.

906
01:08:24,720 --> 01:08:25,390
Yes?

907
01:08:26,010 --> 01:08:31,440
Do you recall when we
were in primary school,

908
01:08:32,770 --> 01:08:37,110
there was a bridge on the road to school?

909
01:08:38,110 --> 01:08:41,150
Yes, you mean the baby?

910
01:08:41,820 --> 01:08:43,240
You remember?

911
01:08:43,610 --> 01:08:44,870
Sure!

912
01:08:45,120 --> 01:08:46,440
You saw it too?

913
01:08:47,950 --> 01:08:49,760
I saw what you saw.

914
01:08:50,020 --> 01:08:53,150
I always thought it was only me seeing it.

915
01:08:55,560 --> 01:08:57,730
I was erased in your memory.

916
01:08:57,800 --> 01:08:58,570
Nope.

917
01:08:58,750 --> 01:09:01,770
The scene was too strong.

918
01:09:02,090 --> 01:09:05,090
I always remember it.

919
01:09:10,310 --> 01:09:13,900
I was very curious,
watching the baby carefully.

920
01:09:14,190 --> 01:09:16,150
She had a big head

921
01:09:16,720 --> 01:09:18,560
and seemed to be furry.

922
01:09:18,610 --> 01:09:19,570
Yes.

923
01:09:20,820 --> 01:09:21,950
She was very white.

924
01:09:22,320 --> 01:09:24,070
Because she was soaked in water.

925
01:09:24,820 --> 01:09:26,570
You saw one or two babies?

926
01:09:28,390 --> 01:09:33,350
One. But I often saw scenes like that.

927
01:09:33,500 --> 01:09:35,420
The same one or different babies?

928
01:09:35,520 --> 01:09:36,600
Not the same one.

929
01:09:36,850 --> 01:09:41,070
There was an emergency center nearby,
they threw babies in the ditch.

930
01:09:41,340 --> 01:09:43,970
All aborted babies.

931
01:09:49,740 --> 01:09:51,740
All baby girls.

932
01:09:56,550 --> 01:09:59,690
Since I decided to make this film

933
01:09:59,880 --> 01:10:02,970
I kept thinking of that scene.

934
01:10:02,970 --> 01:10:08,840
The more I think about it, the more I
feel it was like happening in my dream.

935
01:10:08,850 --> 01:10:14,190
Then I ask myself if it's real.

936
01:10:15,690 --> 01:10:18,440
So it did happen.

937
01:10:30,050 --> 01:10:35,100
''Abortion of a selected
sex is prohibited."

938
01:10:36,460 --> 01:10:37,750
Almost four months.

939
01:10:37,750 --> 01:10:39,370
How many children?

940
01:10:39,370 --> 01:10:40,040
Two.

941
01:10:40,040 --> 01:10:40,830
Two?

942
01:10:40,830 --> 01:10:42,130
Two, oh, three.

943
01:10:43,000 --> 01:10:44,420
Three children.

944
01:10:47,590 --> 01:10:48,380
Wang Li, right?

945
01:10:48,380 --> 01:10:49,010
Yes.

946
01:11:15,910 --> 01:11:19,460
Let's not talk in the crowd.

947
01:11:19,460 --> 01:11:20,330
Sure.

948
01:11:20,330 --> 01:11:21,920
It's a boy.

949
01:11:21,920 --> 01:11:22,630
Mine is a boy?

950
01:11:23,880 --> 01:11:26,710
You can tell at 3.5 months.

951
01:11:27,480 --> 01:11:28,470
Keep it to yourself.

952
01:11:28,470 --> 01:11:29,510
Sure, I know.

953
01:11:31,760 --> 01:11:33,350
Thank you!

954
01:11:48,710 --> 01:11:50,930
What if it's a girl?

955
01:11:52,380 --> 01:11:53,710
Then I'd choose abortion.

956
01:11:53,710 --> 01:11:55,130
But it's 4 months-old.

957
01:11:56,060 --> 01:11:57,940
You can have it in the 4th month.

958
01:12:00,300 --> 01:12:03,470
When I delivered Apple,

959
01:12:03,470 --> 01:12:06,100
my husband called mom.
She told him it's a girl.

960
01:12:06,100 --> 01:12:09,100
He just hung up without a word.

961
01:12:09,100 --> 01:12:13,300
Long after he called again,
asked her how I was feeling.

962
01:12:16,320 --> 01:12:17,990
My husband warned me.

963
01:12:19,070 --> 01:12:22,280
If I were to carry another girl,

964
01:12:22,360 --> 01:12:25,450
he'd have a son with another woman.

965
01:12:27,160 --> 01:12:29,790
But he already has a son
from his previous marriage.

966
01:12:31,640 --> 01:12:35,060
All his friends have more than one son.

967
01:12:38,850 --> 01:12:40,440
He doesn't want to lose face.

968
01:12:44,110 --> 01:12:47,320
We like eating apples.

969
01:12:47,470 --> 01:12:52,970
Apples are good to health.

970
01:12:53,070 --> 01:12:54,780
Grandma, I see you in the camera!

971
01:12:54,780 --> 01:12:55,870
Oh, you see me.

972
01:12:56,860 --> 01:12:59,870
Who's next?

973
01:13:00,120 --> 01:13:00,870
Well...

974
01:13:01,070 --> 01:13:01,740
Well...

975
01:13:01,740 --> 01:13:02,490
This little one!

976
01:13:02,490 --> 01:13:03,620
All right. Let's sing.

977
01:13:03,910 --> 01:13:04,890
Sing a song.

978
01:13:08,610 --> 01:13:09,360
Stop!

979
01:13:10,740 --> 01:13:11,950
Not finished yet.

980
01:13:12,240 --> 01:13:13,950
Why stop? Is it not good?

981
01:13:14,530 --> 01:13:15,280
No.

982
01:13:15,280 --> 01:13:16,660
How to sing it then?

983
01:13:21,060 --> 01:13:22,060
Oh, no!

984
01:13:24,890 --> 01:13:26,890
Come on. Let me help you.

985
01:13:28,360 --> 01:13:29,510
She's laughing.

986
01:13:30,390 --> 01:13:31,850
I'm wearing lipsticks.

987
01:13:35,350 --> 01:13:36,350
Yay!

988
01:13:38,810 --> 01:13:39,810
That's enough.

989
01:13:39,810 --> 01:13:41,020
Don't put on too much.

990
01:13:41,180 --> 01:13:42,770
Your lips are like

991
01:13:42,770 --> 01:13:44,020
monkey's bun.

992
01:13:44,960 --> 01:13:46,920
Don't touch it! It's so dirty.

993
01:13:47,790 --> 01:13:48,800
I want more.

994
01:13:48,800 --> 01:13:50,840
Don't get too much.

995
01:13:50,840 --> 01:13:53,800
Be a good girl.

996
01:13:55,010 --> 01:13:55,840
Which one?

997
01:13:55,840 --> 01:13:56,640
This one.

998
01:14:02,780 --> 01:14:03,860
Who is this?

999
01:14:03,860 --> 01:14:04,440
No idea.

1000
01:14:04,440 --> 01:14:05,400
Who is this?

1001
01:14:05,400 --> 01:14:06,360
I have no idea.

1002
01:14:07,320 --> 01:14:08,530
This is aunt Qiong.

1003
01:14:09,070 --> 01:14:10,080
This is her.

1004
01:14:11,160 --> 01:14:12,160
This is mommy.

1005
01:14:12,160 --> 01:14:13,080
Mommy.

1006
01:14:14,620 --> 01:14:15,120
Mom.

1007
01:14:15,120 --> 01:14:15,790
Yes?

1008
01:14:16,460 --> 01:14:17,670
Is this me?

1009
01:14:19,040 --> 01:14:20,340
Is it you?

1010
01:14:21,340 --> 01:14:22,670
Then who is this?

1011
01:14:22,670 --> 01:14:25,090
Who is this? Take a close look at it.

1012
01:14:25,090 --> 01:14:26,970
I like this photo so much.

1013
01:14:28,470 --> 01:14:29,680
Dad took it.

1014
01:14:29,680 --> 01:14:30,890
Sister.

1015
01:14:30,890 --> 01:14:31,850
Sister?

1016
01:14:32,310 --> 01:14:33,770
This is mommy.

1017
01:14:34,100 --> 01:14:35,980
Dad took it when I was in fifth grade.

1018
01:14:41,260 --> 01:14:43,640
The sky is overcast

1019
01:14:45,600 --> 01:14:47,480
with constant thunders.

1020
01:14:47,480 --> 01:14:49,100
What's going on?

1021
01:14:49,100 --> 01:14:50,350
It's raining.

1022
01:14:50,350 --> 01:14:52,360
Yes, It's raining.

1023
01:14:54,270 --> 01:14:56,230
It's thundering.

1024
01:14:56,690 --> 01:14:57,940
Yes.

1025
01:14:58,450 --> 01:15:02,820
What should we do then?

1026
01:15:04,410 --> 01:15:05,330
Little kids?

1027
01:15:05,330 --> 01:15:06,240
Going home.

1028
01:15:06,240 --> 01:15:08,000
Running?

1029
01:15:08,000 --> 01:15:10,370
It's already raining, we won't make it.

1030
01:15:10,370 --> 01:15:11,460
Yes.

1031
01:15:11,460 --> 01:15:13,590
Then what should we do?

1032
01:15:13,590 --> 01:15:15,550
A kid says:

1033
01:15:15,550 --> 01:15:19,170
Come on, let's hide under the big tree.

1034
01:15:19,170 --> 01:15:20,050
Is that right?

1035
01:15:20,050 --> 01:15:21,470
It's raining.

1036
01:15:21,470 --> 01:15:22,590
Yes.

1037
01:15:22,970 --> 01:15:24,220
Then

1038
01:15:24,680 --> 01:15:27,640
another kid says:

1039
01:15:28,100 --> 01:15:32,390
No, we can't hide under the tree.

1040
01:15:32,520 --> 01:15:34,480
It's raining and thundering.

1041
01:15:34,480 --> 01:15:36,820
Yes, raining and thundering.

1042
01:15:37,190 --> 01:15:39,360
Thunder will strike the tree.

1043
01:15:39,360 --> 01:15:40,200
Yes.

1044
01:15:40,530 --> 01:15:41,610
And raining.

1045
01:15:41,610 --> 01:15:44,070
Oh, the thunder will strike the tree.

1046
01:15:44,070 --> 01:15:44,820
Yes.

1047
01:15:44,820 --> 01:15:46,370
And strike us, right?

1048
01:15:46,370 --> 01:15:47,200
Yes.

1049
01:15:47,540 --> 01:15:49,160
And bite us.

1050
01:15:49,160 --> 01:15:50,710
Oh? It bites?

1051
01:15:50,710 --> 01:15:52,420
It doesn't bite.

1052
01:15:53,420 --> 01:15:56,130
So we can't hide under the
tree when it's raining?

1053
01:15:56,130 --> 01:15:57,090
Yes.

1054
01:15:57,090 --> 01:15:58,760
Raining.

1055
01:16:52,110 --> 01:16:54,160
The belly is not very big.

1056
01:16:54,570 --> 01:16:56,660
Is this your third C-section?

1057
01:16:56,660 --> 01:16:58,430
You are going to have a big family.

1058
01:16:58,950 --> 01:16:59,950
All right.

1059
01:17:01,410 --> 01:17:02,790
When is my surgery?

1060
01:17:08,980 --> 01:17:10,900
It's your turn. Come with me!

1061
01:17:10,900 --> 01:17:13,230
Bring two maternal mats and one diaper.

1062
01:17:27,230 --> 01:17:30,110
No need for tissues. Just buy some…

1063
01:17:30,110 --> 01:17:32,240
maternal mats.

1064
01:17:32,240 --> 01:17:33,700
Yes, get some maternal mats.

1065
01:17:33,700 --> 01:17:35,740
On the 4th floor.

1066
01:17:54,880 --> 01:17:57,380
What if the second baby is a girl?

1067
01:17:57,380 --> 01:17:59,090
I have no idea.

1068
01:17:59,090 --> 01:18:04,560
I was ready to die for this baby.

1069
01:18:05,400 --> 01:18:06,900
How would you think so?

1070
01:18:07,960 --> 01:18:11,670
Maybe it's because of my first delivery.

1071
01:18:11,670 --> 01:18:13,550
Giving birth to Wenzhe.

1072
01:18:13,760 --> 01:18:19,380
Li and her first husband
had a son called Wenzhe.

1073
01:18:19,380 --> 01:18:28,260
A medical accident happened during the delivery. Li had
to bear a C-section for 2 hours, with no anesthesia.

1074
01:18:28,260 --> 01:18:36,550
Due to an serious inflammation after the surgery, her abdomen
was cut open for a second time, again with no anesthesia.

1075
01:18:36,550 --> 01:18:40,270
She was only 18 back then.

1076
01:18:40,760 --> 01:18:42,260
It was too scary.

1077
01:18:42,260 --> 01:18:43,850
I lost half of my life there.

1078
01:18:43,850 --> 01:18:46,560
So I think a third baby may kill me.

1079
01:18:46,560 --> 01:18:47,640
After

1080
01:18:47,640 --> 01:18:50,100
delivering the baby, I might die.

1081
01:19:06,550 --> 01:19:11,560
''Except for medical purpose, sex-selective
testing and abortion are prohibited.''

1082
01:19:24,980 --> 01:19:27,280
Sometime I wondered at night.

1083
01:19:27,280 --> 01:19:30,490
What if I pass away?

1084
01:19:31,820 --> 01:19:33,990
What about my children?

1085
01:19:33,990 --> 01:19:37,700
I asked my husband to be kind to my kids

1086
01:19:37,700 --> 01:19:40,080
if I pass away.

1087
01:19:41,650 --> 01:19:43,230
And he told me that

1088
01:19:43,330 --> 01:19:47,460
I was thinking too much.

1089
01:19:48,670 --> 01:19:51,760
Why would your husband want so many boys?

1090
01:19:54,340 --> 01:19:55,510
It relates to his family.

1091
01:19:55,820 --> 01:19:57,240
Could you understand this?

1092
01:19:57,890 --> 01:19:59,310
Yes, I do.

1093
01:19:59,310 --> 01:20:01,770
The whole county is like this.

1094
01:20:01,980 --> 01:20:06,400
Many women went through all
this, I am not the only one.

1095
01:20:06,400 --> 01:20:09,230
There are worse cases than mine.

1096
01:20:10,230 --> 01:20:13,060
I am just one of many

1097
01:20:13,060 --> 01:20:15,060
and not the worst of all.

1098
01:20:16,740 --> 01:20:19,330
Don't you think it's unfair to women?

1099
01:20:19,540 --> 01:20:20,950
Fair or unfair

1100
01:20:20,950 --> 01:20:22,710
women don't have a say.

1101
01:20:23,710 --> 01:20:26,750
You know it's unfair, then what?

1102
01:20:27,790 --> 01:20:30,050
Can't we change it?

1103
01:20:30,460 --> 01:20:32,170
Can we?

1104
01:20:32,170 --> 01:20:34,630
You can't change it on your own.

1105
01:20:55,610 --> 01:20:57,230
It was done vertically.

1106
01:20:57,230 --> 01:20:58,900
The C-section was done vertically.

1107
01:20:59,940 --> 01:21:03,660
The last two operations made it
impossible to do it horizontally.

1108
01:21:04,320 --> 01:21:05,280
One, two, three.

1109
01:21:28,060 --> 01:21:30,770
Hold him.

1110
01:21:32,810 --> 01:21:34,680
It's okay.

1111
01:21:41,070 --> 01:21:42,570
It hurts so much.

1112
01:21:48,830 --> 01:21:51,500
It isn't easy to be a woman.

1113
01:21:52,410 --> 01:21:54,790
Exactly, imagine having a baby.

1114
01:21:55,330 --> 01:21:57,670
How was it when you gave birth?

1115
01:21:59,550 --> 01:22:03,220
It took me a long time.

1116
01:22:03,220 --> 01:22:05,840
It took me much longer to give birth.

1117
01:22:07,180 --> 01:22:10,090
It was more primitive,
with no advanced tools.

1118
01:22:10,090 --> 01:22:12,010
We delivered babies at home.

1119
01:22:12,970 --> 01:22:13,970
Well...

1120
01:22:15,600 --> 01:22:17,390
My sister-in-law helped me.

1121
01:22:17,730 --> 01:22:18,940
Ah, I see.

1122
01:22:19,400 --> 01:22:20,730
It was common then.

1123
01:22:22,480 --> 01:22:25,110
It took me much longer time

1124
01:22:25,110 --> 01:22:26,570
than others to give birth.

1125
01:22:26,570 --> 01:22:28,070
Especially the first time.

1126
01:22:28,700 --> 01:22:30,490
First or second.

1127
01:22:35,030 --> 01:22:36,990
It's the same with me.

1128
01:22:37,530 --> 01:22:40,320
Which hurts more, a natural
delivery or an induced abortion?

1129
01:22:40,320 --> 01:22:42,070
Of course the induced abortions.

1130
01:22:42,890 --> 01:22:44,040
Pretty much the same.

1131
01:22:44,040 --> 01:22:47,660
No way. The induced
abortion hurts a lot more.

1132
01:22:47,660 --> 01:22:49,670
They hurt the same to me.

1133
01:22:49,670 --> 01:22:52,340
The first induced
abortion almost killed me.

1134
01:22:52,340 --> 01:22:54,460
I was black and blue all over.

1135
01:22:54,460 --> 01:22:56,880
After how many months of pregnancy?

1136
01:22:56,880 --> 01:22:58,550
I did it several times.

1137
01:22:58,550 --> 01:23:00,050
Five month.

1138
01:23:00,050 --> 01:23:04,060
One in Hainan, one in town.

1139
01:23:05,060 --> 01:23:06,810
And a couple of girls.

1140
01:23:11,020 --> 01:23:13,560
What did they look like?

1141
01:23:13,560 --> 01:23:15,860
I didn't see.

1142
01:23:15,860 --> 01:23:18,400
They were all wrapped up.

1143
01:23:18,400 --> 01:23:21,280
Where did they throw them?

1144
01:23:22,380 --> 01:23:24,470
They used to throw them in the restrooms.

1145
01:23:24,490 --> 01:23:27,430
I don't know, someone else did.

1146
01:23:28,890 --> 01:23:30,720
I didn't ask.

1147
01:23:36,560 --> 01:23:39,390
They were all girls, no boy?

1148
01:23:39,410 --> 01:23:41,120
I had a boy.

1149
01:23:41,120 --> 01:23:42,830
I was forced to abort.

1150
01:23:43,500 --> 01:23:44,880
It wasn't my wish.

1151
01:23:51,260 --> 01:23:54,850
It's heartbreaking thinking about it.

1152
01:23:54,850 --> 01:23:57,520
So I don't want to recall it.

1153
01:23:58,730 --> 01:24:01,350
Like my wife and I,

1154
01:24:02,520 --> 01:24:05,270
our babies were aborted at eight months.

1155
01:24:05,980 --> 01:24:08,610
Two babies. The first one was a girl.

1156
01:24:09,360 --> 01:24:11,070
She was thrown in a bucket crying.

1157
01:24:11,070 --> 01:24:14,030
I carried her to the
woods. I had no choice.

1158
01:24:14,030 --> 01:24:15,490
She was alive.

1159
01:24:18,660 --> 01:24:20,540
I left her in the woods.

1160
01:24:20,540 --> 01:24:21,910
She kept crying.

1161
01:24:22,420 --> 01:24:25,290
These memories are too
sad to be remembered.

1162
01:24:25,290 --> 01:24:29,760
It's such a cruel policy.

1163
01:24:31,010 --> 01:24:33,730
Is the wood behind your house?

1164
01:24:34,410 --> 01:24:36,410
Behind that hospital.

1165
01:24:40,780 --> 01:24:42,700
It meant killing, you know?

1166
01:24:44,580 --> 01:24:46,750
The country allowed you to kill.

1167
01:24:50,610 --> 01:24:51,570
It's all gone.

1168
01:24:53,090 --> 01:24:57,300
Let bygones be bygones.

1169
01:24:57,300 --> 01:24:58,650
What else could you do?

1170
01:25:00,760 --> 01:25:08,650
I think this policy is not reasonable.

1171
01:25:13,860 --> 01:25:16,820
What about the boy?

1172
01:25:16,820 --> 01:25:19,780
The second was the same.

1173
01:25:19,780 --> 01:25:22,160
They gave my wife a few shots.

1174
01:25:22,740 --> 01:25:23,870
Nothing happened.

1175
01:25:24,640 --> 01:25:27,180
They gave her more shots.

1176
01:25:27,790 --> 01:25:30,350
Two days later, she gave birth to a boy.

1177
01:25:30,350 --> 01:25:31,420
He was alive.

1178
01:25:31,730 --> 01:25:35,060
I took care of him for three days. Then...

1179
01:25:35,780 --> 01:25:37,070
He died?

1180
01:25:39,530 --> 01:25:40,870
You threw him in the woods?

1181
01:25:41,230 --> 01:25:44,490
Yes. I was in the hospital.

1182
01:25:45,080 --> 01:25:47,290
He should be twenty by now.

1183
01:25:50,040 --> 01:25:52,170
All these...

1184
01:25:52,170 --> 01:25:54,760
We can't blame the country.

1185
01:25:55,550 --> 01:25:58,090
But I hate the township government.

1186
01:26:00,180 --> 01:26:03,010
But you still work with them?

1187
01:26:03,010 --> 01:26:04,970
Yes, I have to obey orders.

1188
01:26:04,970 --> 01:26:08,020
Since I am in the boat with them.

1189
01:26:11,360 --> 01:26:13,860
I don't like to talk about the past.

1190
01:26:13,860 --> 01:26:17,240
After all, I am human, I feel pain.

1191
01:26:17,740 --> 01:26:21,120
Every night I think about
it, I can't hold my tears.

1192
01:26:21,990 --> 01:26:23,450
Meaningless.

1193
01:26:50,770 --> 01:26:54,580
Sis, I had a dream.

1194
01:26:55,230 --> 01:26:57,680
I dreamed of me being sick.

1195
01:26:58,310 --> 01:27:01,580
A doctor says I have seven days left.

1196
01:27:02,520 --> 01:27:09,420
But there is an injection that would
cause death for only one minute.

1197
01:27:09,880 --> 01:27:13,020
If I wake up a minute later,
I will be healthy and sound.

1198
01:27:13,880 --> 01:27:16,030
If not, I would be really dead.

1199
01:27:16,860 --> 01:27:18,710
I try.

1200
01:27:19,380 --> 01:27:22,590
After the shot, I'm counting.

1201
01:27:23,370 --> 01:27:31,030
One...Two... Three...Four...

1202
01:27:31,930 --> 01:27:36,010
When I count to nine,

1203
01:27:37,160 --> 01:27:41,120
I feel dizzy and my eyes blur.

1204
01:27:41,860 --> 01:27:46,030
My breath gets slower and slower.

1205
01:27:46,430 --> 01:27:51,560
Then I can't feel my breath.

1206
01:27:55,420 --> 01:27:59,730
It seems as I'm in an empty space.

1207
01:28:00,930 --> 01:28:02,700
Lights off,

1208
01:28:02,980 --> 01:28:04,600
curtains shut,

1209
01:28:04,860 --> 01:28:06,750
a dark space.

1210
01:28:08,310 --> 01:28:13,160
But I know what's happening.

1211
01:28:15,160 --> 01:28:17,560
I know sis is beside me.

1212
01:28:17,800 --> 01:28:20,220
The doctor is in front.

1213
01:28:20,500 --> 01:28:22,700
A flower bed is outside.

1214
01:28:23,930 --> 01:28:26,360
I feel like a drone in the sky

1215
01:28:26,360 --> 01:28:28,580
overlooking the whole town.

1216
01:28:32,820 --> 01:28:36,880
In that space,

1217
01:28:39,610 --> 01:28:44,010
there is no feeling,

1218
01:28:46,650 --> 01:28:50,680
no emotion,

1219
01:28:52,680 --> 01:28:58,410
and no suffering.

1220
01:29:47,630 --> 01:29:50,360
He is just like a nail.

1221
01:29:52,980 --> 01:29:53,930
Look at him.

1222
01:29:53,930 --> 01:29:58,890
I thought grand-uncle gave us
1000 Yuan when Apple was born.

1223
01:29:59,610 --> 01:30:01,480
It was actually 200.

1224
01:30:01,480 --> 01:30:02,830
My mother-in-law told me so.

1225
01:30:04,290 --> 01:30:05,880
Boy is different.

1226
01:30:06,470 --> 01:30:07,510
1000 for a boy.

1227
01:30:07,790 --> 01:30:09,260
200 for a girl.

1228
01:30:10,720 --> 01:30:11,760
Isn't it funny?

1229
01:30:15,720 --> 01:30:17,680
Water delivery is coming.

1230
01:30:31,360 --> 01:30:32,670
Water runs so fast.

1231
01:30:32,670 --> 01:30:34,570
Only for three or four days.

1232
01:30:35,170 --> 01:30:36,160
It's too hot.

1233
01:30:36,160 --> 01:30:39,160
Of course it's consumed fast.

1234
01:30:40,690 --> 01:30:42,070
Even faster at my place.

1235
01:30:42,710 --> 01:30:44,460
A big bottle for one day.

1236
01:30:48,370 --> 01:30:50,150
Don't push him.

1237
01:30:53,670 --> 01:30:54,410
Don't push.

1238
01:31:10,670 --> 01:31:13,570
We start the photo shoot for
high school seniors on Oct 8.

1239
01:31:14,190 --> 01:31:16,170
Damn. The hotkey doesn't work.

1240
01:31:16,450 --> 01:31:17,550
No. It isn't the hotkey.

1241
01:31:17,580 --> 01:31:18,500
Look.

1242
01:31:21,880 --> 01:31:24,370
You need to send it first.

1243
01:31:35,060 --> 01:31:37,300
Why are you in T-shirt?

1244
01:31:38,530 --> 01:31:40,740
Put on the pajama.

1245
01:31:40,910 --> 01:31:41,790
No. I don't want to.

1246
01:31:41,790 --> 01:31:43,530
Close the door. It's too windy.

1247
01:31:43,530 --> 01:31:44,910
No. It's so hot.

1248
01:31:45,090 --> 01:31:47,580
And it isn't too windy.

1249
01:31:55,770 --> 01:31:57,550
The arrow is still here.

1250
01:31:58,330 --> 01:31:59,410
Don't keep it.

1251
01:32:00,170 --> 01:32:01,290
It isn't right.

1252
01:32:02,210 --> 01:32:03,810
Remove it.

1253
01:32:58,010 --> 01:33:00,430
After all, we aren't fairly treated.

1254
01:33:01,050 --> 01:33:03,850
There's so much difference.

1255
01:33:08,230 --> 01:33:10,470
They bought silver bracelets for Apple.

1256
01:33:10,790 --> 01:33:11,960
What's for my son?

1257
01:33:12,070 --> 01:33:12,920
Silver what?

1258
01:33:13,250 --> 01:33:14,580
Silver bracelets.

1259
01:33:14,830 --> 01:33:15,960
I didn't ask.

1260
01:33:16,410 --> 01:33:18,630
And they bought a cradle for Apple.

1261
01:33:18,850 --> 01:33:20,420
What did they buy for my son?

1262
01:33:23,710 --> 01:33:25,840
They bought the cradle?

1263
01:33:26,930 --> 01:33:30,560
I heard it cost 400 or 500 yuan.

1264
01:33:30,670 --> 01:33:32,850
They bought it even before Li's pregnancy.

1265
01:33:40,770 --> 01:33:43,110
So I couldn't see the point of my wedding.

1266
01:33:43,190 --> 01:33:44,660
I even wanted to cancel it.

1267
01:34:43,470 --> 01:34:44,300
Sui.

1268
01:34:44,870 --> 01:34:47,010
You know why your son looks thinner?

1269
01:34:47,370 --> 01:34:48,760
Because he grows taller.

1270
01:34:56,170 --> 01:34:57,810
Leave me some. Too heavy for you.

1271
01:34:57,870 --> 01:34:59,060
Where are we going?

1272
01:34:59,090 --> 01:35:00,050
Let me help you.

1273
01:35:00,070 --> 01:35:00,650
No.

1274
01:35:02,430 --> 01:35:04,450
In case you say I do nothing.

1275
01:35:19,850 --> 01:35:20,850
Bring a stool.

1276
01:35:25,410 --> 01:35:26,950
Qiong, is it perfectly horizontal?

1277
01:35:28,450 --> 01:35:30,710
Lower your side a little.

1278
01:35:31,070 --> 01:35:31,710
Mine?

1279
01:35:31,790 --> 01:35:32,710
It looks good now.

1280
01:35:38,770 --> 01:35:39,490
Where's Xi?

1281
01:35:39,670 --> 01:35:41,060
Now you think of my son.

1282
01:35:41,130 --> 01:35:42,420
Stay for dinner?

1283
01:35:42,630 --> 01:35:43,690
I'm starving.

1284
01:35:43,900 --> 01:35:45,190
Would you stay?

1285
01:35:45,410 --> 01:35:46,530
Would you?

1286
01:35:46,550 --> 01:35:47,230
No.

1287
01:35:47,230 --> 01:35:48,110
Why?

1288
01:35:49,430 --> 01:35:50,370
Want some beer?

1289
01:35:50,450 --> 01:35:51,320
Yes.

1290
01:35:51,320 --> 01:35:52,240
Would you stay?

1291
01:35:52,240 --> 01:35:52,870
Okay.

1292
01:35:53,070 --> 01:35:53,750
Sure?

1293
01:35:53,790 --> 01:35:54,250
Yes.

1294
01:35:54,290 --> 01:35:55,490
Stay, or I'll kill you.

1295
01:35:58,670 --> 01:35:59,430
Stay?

1296
01:35:59,890 --> 01:36:01,000
I will cook carrots.

1297
01:36:01,770 --> 01:36:03,170
And chicken wings.

1298
01:36:03,330 --> 01:36:05,630
And a chicken left over from lunch.

1299
01:36:07,210 --> 01:36:08,450
What else?

1300
01:36:09,570 --> 01:36:10,720
Potato.

1301
01:36:14,270 --> 01:36:15,810
You like potatoes?

1302
01:36:15,890 --> 01:36:17,020
Yes.

1303
01:36:27,170 --> 01:36:28,300
Xi.

1304
01:36:28,300 --> 01:36:29,530
Who gave you this?

1305
01:36:29,530 --> 01:36:30,530
Aunt.

1306
01:36:30,530 --> 01:36:31,950
Aunt? Oh.

1307
01:36:34,860 --> 01:36:35,870
Here you are.

1308
01:36:37,280 --> 01:36:38,370
Give it to uncle?

1309
01:36:40,220 --> 01:36:41,160
Open it?

1310
01:36:48,030 --> 01:36:49,690
If you work hard

1311
01:36:50,870 --> 01:36:54,700
we won't blame you for a bad score.

1312
01:36:59,130 --> 01:37:00,750
But you never try.

1313
01:37:00,750 --> 01:37:02,560
How can you do well in an exam?

1314
01:37:02,560 --> 01:37:04,770
How could you fail if you've studied hard?

1315
01:37:12,780 --> 01:37:14,240
So many mosquitos.

1316
01:37:15,240 --> 01:37:16,570
Don't play with scissors!

1317
01:37:19,500 --> 01:37:22,200
Be careful. It's dangerous.

1318
01:37:25,760 --> 01:37:27,840
Didn't you say you'd study?

1319
01:37:28,560 --> 01:37:29,880
I'm doing it.

1320
01:37:31,260 --> 01:37:32,340
How?

1321
01:37:32,540 --> 01:37:33,960
By meditation.

1322
01:37:41,390 --> 01:37:44,390
Stop filming me, or I'll smash your camera.

1323
01:37:44,600 --> 01:37:45,850
Like on the TV show.

1324
01:38:00,400 --> 01:38:01,660
Leave me alone.

1325
01:38:04,040 --> 01:38:06,710
If you don't let me rest,

1326
01:38:06,940 --> 01:38:08,420
give me a break then.

1327
01:38:08,500 --> 01:38:09,710
I've had enough!

1328
01:38:35,680 --> 01:38:38,620
You're so annoying!

1329
01:38:42,680 --> 01:38:44,490
Come on, let's fight!

1330
01:38:48,600 --> 01:38:49,960
Oh, stop it!

1331
01:38:51,560 --> 01:38:53,040
Don't touch me!

1332
01:38:54,220 --> 01:38:55,250
Go to study.

1333
01:38:56,400 --> 01:38:57,840
I'm off today.

1334
01:38:59,000 --> 01:39:00,540
Then no more day off this week.

1335
01:39:00,630 --> 01:39:02,340
No problem. Leave me alone then.

1336
01:39:02,340 --> 01:39:03,760
Do you want to study?

1337
01:39:03,970 --> 01:39:05,180
Alright, I want.

1338
01:39:05,390 --> 01:39:06,890
My bad. Won't do it again.

1339
01:39:07,140 --> 01:39:08,520
Will you talk bad about Dad?

1340
01:39:08,730 --> 01:39:10,690
I will. I won't.

1341
01:39:11,280 --> 01:39:13,040
Surprise!

1342
01:39:13,230 --> 01:39:14,360
It's for me?

1343
01:39:14,570 --> 01:39:15,650
I bought it long ago.

1344
01:39:16,040 --> 01:39:18,530
You kept it from me.

1345
01:39:22,680 --> 01:39:24,240
Yes, a surprise.

1346
01:39:24,450 --> 01:39:26,020
But for myself. Sorry.

1347
01:39:30,780 --> 01:39:33,060
Sifan, be serious.

1348
01:39:36,520 --> 01:39:38,070
Let's talk for real.

1349
01:39:38,800 --> 01:39:40,400
Which sister do you like best?

1350
01:39:41,860 --> 01:39:43,680
Of course Jin.

1351
01:39:43,780 --> 01:39:44,760
Why?

1352
01:39:44,760 --> 01:39:45,930
No reasons.

1353
01:39:46,140 --> 01:39:47,350
Why not me?

1354
01:40:02,030 --> 01:40:03,780
Tell me, why not me?

1355
01:40:07,820 --> 01:40:08,950
I like you all.

1356
01:40:16,440 --> 01:40:18,500
Why is Jin your favorite?

1357
01:40:19,920 --> 01:40:22,420
For all the reasons in the world.

1358
01:40:24,220 --> 01:40:25,380
Tell me the truth.

1359
01:40:25,480 --> 01:40:26,620
I'd rather not say.

1360
01:40:30,780 --> 01:40:32,430
She treats me well.

1361
01:40:33,600 --> 01:40:34,940
How well?

1362
01:40:43,740 --> 01:40:46,600
She never scolds me, like you do.

1363
01:40:47,200 --> 01:40:48,450
I don't scold you.

1364
01:40:48,820 --> 01:40:49,950
You got me in trouble.

1365
01:40:50,240 --> 01:40:51,660
I was just teasing you.

1366
01:40:51,920 --> 01:40:53,500
I don't like it.

1367
01:40:58,560 --> 01:41:02,520
So I get you in trouble and Li scolds you?

1368
01:41:02,720 --> 01:41:03,780
Yes.

1369
01:41:05,220 --> 01:41:06,260
What about Jin?

1370
01:41:08,240 --> 01:41:09,400
She does neither.

1371
01:41:17,830 --> 01:41:21,140
Do you like her because...

1372
01:41:21,140 --> 01:41:24,840
our family abandoned her?

1373
01:41:31,910 --> 01:41:33,450
Right?

1374
01:41:40,960 --> 01:41:42,760
You feel sorry for her?

1375
01:41:45,360 --> 01:41:46,680
So you like her best?

1376
01:41:53,140 --> 01:41:54,480
Are you serious?

1377
01:42:11,140 --> 01:42:16,060
Do you think that Jin was sacrificed

1378
01:42:18,540 --> 01:42:23,680
so that you can be here？

1379
01:42:25,920 --> 01:42:27,420
What do you mean?

1380
01:42:27,560 --> 01:42:29,430
For you to be born.

1381
01:42:33,380 --> 01:42:34,470
Yes.

1382
01:42:38,820 --> 01:42:39,860
Yes?

1383
01:42:41,760 --> 01:42:43,360
So you want to be nicer to her?

1384
01:42:45,340 --> 01:42:46,480
Are you serious?

1385
01:42:48,040 --> 01:42:49,610
Look at me.

1386
01:44:06,260 --> 01:44:07,560
I don't want to study.

1387
01:44:07,770 --> 01:44:09,150
Be patient!

1388
01:44:09,380 --> 01:44:11,990
What else can you do at this age?

1389
01:44:35,580 --> 01:44:37,820
Yesterday your teacher called me.

1390
01:44:46,880 --> 01:44:49,980
You don't listen to anything I tell you.

1391
01:44:50,380 --> 01:44:53,200
You are so stubborn!

1392
01:44:57,030 --> 01:44:58,740
He caused troubles to others.

1393
01:44:58,920 --> 01:45:00,120
What's going on?

1394
01:45:00,840 --> 01:45:02,620
I didn't!

1395
01:45:05,800 --> 01:45:09,000
Damn you, why are you so stubborn!

1396
01:45:09,100 --> 01:45:11,000
I will beat you to death!

1397
01:45:11,500 --> 01:45:13,670
You are so stupid.

1398
01:45:14,500 --> 01:45:16,260
How dare you!

1399
01:45:19,350 --> 01:45:20,760
Who do you think you are?

1400
01:45:26,080 --> 01:45:28,060
Lou's son was like you before.

1401
01:45:28,120 --> 01:45:31,780
Now he ranks top 20 in school.

1402
01:45:32,120 --> 01:45:33,740
Even Yongxin's son made progress.

1403
01:45:33,740 --> 01:45:35,400
Why wouldn't you learn from them?

1404
01:45:36,660 --> 01:45:37,990
All you do is play.

1405
01:45:40,160 --> 01:45:43,000
You know nothing but play!

1406
01:45:46,120 --> 01:45:48,710
I was already working at your age.

1407
01:45:52,640 --> 01:45:53,960
You are wasting your life.

1408
01:45:54,920 --> 01:45:56,380
You shouldn't have been born.

1409
01:46:02,320 --> 01:46:03,880
I wanted to yell back at him.

1410
01:46:05,320 --> 01:46:06,560
How?

1411
01:46:11,040 --> 01:46:12,570
I am fuck you mother!

1412
01:46:15,380 --> 01:46:16,840
Who taught you?

1413
01:46:17,780 --> 01:46:19,320
I made it up myself.

1414
01:46:23,160 --> 01:46:24,540
Oh no. Dad is here.

1415
01:46:26,750 --> 01:46:27,860
Let's go.

1416
01:46:33,340 --> 01:46:35,050
I want to see Xi.

1417
01:46:35,720 --> 01:46:37,130
Let's go anyway!

1418
01:46:37,780 --> 01:46:38,840
Qiong!

1419
01:46:38,980 --> 01:46:42,140
My son just saw our pictures

1420
01:46:42,440 --> 01:46:46,390
and called aunty aunty. So funny!

1421
01:46:49,400 --> 01:46:50,450
Say uncle.

1422
01:46:51,180 --> 01:46:52,060
Say uncle.

1423
01:46:54,240 --> 01:46:56,400
Why are you going home so early?

1424
01:46:56,510 --> 01:46:57,940
Or my dad will scold me.

1425
01:46:58,070 --> 01:46:59,150
Why?

1426
01:47:00,680 --> 01:47:02,320
Afraid of his reproaches?

1427
01:47:02,780 --> 01:47:06,320
He's always been afraid of you.

1428
01:47:06,450 --> 01:47:08,370
Ask her, wasn't I scolded today?

1429
01:47:09,180 --> 01:47:11,170
Doing extra lessons help?

1430
01:47:11,290 --> 01:47:12,250
It sucks.

1431
01:47:12,500 --> 01:47:13,920
You don't make an effort.

1432
01:47:14,630 --> 01:47:15,960
I am not into it at all.

1433
01:47:16,160 --> 01:47:19,480
Then quit school and be
a cameraman like Qiong.

1434
01:47:19,680 --> 01:47:22,970
Get him a camera, Qiong.

1435
01:47:23,420 --> 01:47:25,140
Do your father's job.

1436
01:47:27,060 --> 01:47:29,890
Sifan, what would you
do if you quit school?

1437
01:47:30,200 --> 01:47:33,690
Be a photographer and inherit the store?

1438
01:47:34,900 --> 01:47:36,270
Beat.

1439
01:47:40,700 --> 01:47:41,690
You...

1440
01:47:41,740 --> 01:47:43,100
You idiot.

1441
01:47:47,120 --> 01:47:48,140
Don't move!

1442
01:47:49,200 --> 01:47:50,220
Stand up!

1443
01:47:51,220 --> 01:47:52,200
Sit on the sofa.

1444
01:47:58,240 --> 01:47:59,300
Don't move!

1445
01:47:59,680 --> 01:48:01,630
Don't let him step on the floor.

1446
01:48:05,350 --> 01:48:06,300
Uncle.

1447
01:48:06,300 --> 01:48:07,360
I'm leaving, okay?

1448
01:48:09,360 --> 01:48:10,390
Let's go.

1449
01:48:11,310 --> 01:48:13,730
Uncle will come on Saturday,

1450
01:48:13,820 --> 01:48:17,820
when he doesn't have classes,
so we won't disturb him.

1451
01:48:18,000 --> 01:48:19,070
It's alright.

1452
01:48:19,180 --> 01:48:20,570
Go.

1453
01:48:20,860 --> 01:48:21,840
No.

1454
01:48:21,920 --> 01:48:24,320
- Say bye bye to aunt and uncle. - No!

1455
01:48:25,480 --> 01:48:27,990
Ouch! Ouch!

1456
01:48:28,540 --> 01:48:29,700
Look at him.

1457
01:48:29,720 --> 01:48:30,730
Just go, Sifan.

1458
01:48:31,460 --> 01:48:33,520
I'll come tomorrow.

1459
01:48:34,200 --> 01:48:35,120
Bye bye.

1460
01:48:40,000 --> 01:48:41,380
How dare you hit me!

1461
01:48:44,560 --> 01:48:46,840
The beggar is coming.

1462
01:48:51,260 --> 01:48:52,180
Damn!

1463
01:48:54,280 --> 01:48:55,940
Just go, Sifan!

1464
01:49:42,650 --> 01:49:48,900
My mother went through sterilization in
1992 before giving birth to Sifan in 2002.

1465
01:49:50,030 --> 01:49:56,250
During these years, she had four abortions.

1466
01:49:57,330 --> 01:50:04,460
The doctor who saved her from
sterilization declined my shooting.

1467
01:50:07,940 --> 01:50:09,460
How did she help you?

1468
01:50:10,860 --> 01:50:14,020
She was a country doctor

1469
01:50:14,400 --> 01:50:17,060
and knew people in the hospital.

1470
01:50:17,720 --> 01:50:19,480
She told them

1471
01:50:20,380 --> 01:50:23,690
to keep one fallopian tube.

1472
01:50:24,200 --> 01:50:26,780
They knew that I had several girls

1473
01:50:27,540 --> 01:50:29,780
and understood my desire for a boy.

1474
01:50:30,740 --> 01:50:32,200
So the doctor said yes.

1475
01:50:32,200 --> 01:50:35,040
She kept one fallopian tube.

1476
01:50:37,320 --> 01:50:39,260
What did the doctor ask you to do?

1477
01:50:39,800 --> 01:50:44,800
She told me to swell my belly.

1478
01:50:45,180 --> 01:50:46,980
Then she couldn't find my tubes.

1479
01:50:47,240 --> 01:50:50,010
If you don't cooperate, the
operation won't succeed.

1480
01:50:50,010 --> 01:50:51,890
At first, she only found one oviduct.

1481
01:50:51,980 --> 01:50:54,220
She pretended not finding the other one.

1482
01:50:54,360 --> 01:50:56,810
Then she gave up.

1483
01:50:57,980 --> 01:50:59,770
That's it!

1484
01:51:21,640 --> 01:51:23,880
I only remember our maternal grandparents.

1485
01:51:28,690 --> 01:51:30,810
You don't remember my parents?

1486
01:51:30,810 --> 01:51:32,850
Your maternal grandma died later.

1487
01:51:32,850 --> 01:51:34,730
Yes, after a long illness.

1488
01:51:34,730 --> 01:51:39,490
You took me to visit her.

1489
01:51:39,610 --> 01:51:41,860
But I was afraid to see her

1490
01:51:41,950 --> 01:51:44,070
and kept crying, when she tried to hold me.

1491
01:51:44,710 --> 01:51:46,130
I remember that

1492
01:51:46,320 --> 01:51:50,330
you asked me to get the
buns bought earlier.

1493
01:51:56,230 --> 01:51:57,580
Yummy.

1494
01:52:03,770 --> 01:52:04,670
Call grandma.

1495
01:52:08,490 --> 01:52:09,790
Look at you.

1496
01:52:15,230 --> 01:52:16,370
It's sour.

1497
01:52:19,890 --> 01:52:20,910
Do you want more?

1498
01:52:21,390 --> 01:52:22,390
Want more?

1499
01:52:22,610 --> 01:52:24,260
Yes? Then call grandma.

1500
01:52:28,450 --> 01:52:29,700
It's grandma.

1501
01:52:31,890 --> 01:52:32,890
Yummy.

1502
01:52:33,000 --> 01:52:34,270
Do you like it?

1503
01:52:34,370 --> 01:52:35,920
Yes.

1504
01:52:38,470 --> 01:52:39,500
Call grandpa.

1505
01:52:40,670 --> 01:52:41,710
Say grandpa.

1506
01:52:43,330 --> 01:52:44,630
He said Gwanch.

1507
01:52:55,690 --> 01:52:56,710
Come here.

1508
01:53:12,630 --> 01:53:13,620
Xi!

1509
01:53:17,910 --> 01:53:19,670
You naughty boy.

1510
01:53:21,270 --> 01:53:22,730
Back from grandpa's store.

1511
01:53:27,090 --> 01:53:28,180
My tooth aches.

1512
01:53:40,530 --> 01:53:41,900
Did you feed him oranges?

1513
01:53:42,670 --> 01:53:44,130
Don't give it to him.

1514
01:53:44,230 --> 01:53:45,860
He isn't allowed to eat oranges.

1515
01:53:45,990 --> 01:53:47,150
Oranges!

1516
01:53:47,280 --> 01:53:49,410
Look how dirty your clothes are.

1517
01:53:49,490 --> 01:53:50,660
You greedy cat.

1518
01:53:50,890 --> 01:53:51,990
Greedy cat.

1519
01:53:57,350 --> 01:53:59,330
Why did this door fall down?

1520
01:53:59,930 --> 01:54:01,330
The door...

1521
01:54:02,020 --> 01:54:03,020
What?

1522
01:54:03,020 --> 01:54:04,550
It fell in the morning.

1523
01:54:05,390 --> 01:54:06,460
Alright. It's okay.

1524
01:54:08,110 --> 01:54:09,240
Don't cry.

1525
01:54:10,130 --> 01:54:11,650
Good baby.

1526
01:54:16,510 --> 01:54:18,120
Don't cry.

1527
01:54:18,270 --> 01:54:19,270
He wants to sleep.

1528
01:54:19,270 --> 01:54:20,350
Yes, he does.

1529
01:54:20,350 --> 01:54:21,730
Do you wanna go to bed?

1530
01:54:21,870 --> 01:54:23,480
No?

1531
01:54:24,070 --> 01:54:25,110
You don't?

1532
01:54:25,230 --> 01:54:26,030
Go.

1533
01:54:26,260 --> 01:54:27,530
Go.

1534
01:54:27,530 --> 01:54:28,610
What do you want?

1535
01:54:29,070 --> 01:54:30,160
Go.

1536
01:54:30,310 --> 01:54:31,410
Wear some clothes.

1537
01:54:32,330 --> 01:54:33,410
Come here baby.

1538
01:54:34,150 --> 01:54:35,220
Put on a coat first.

1539
01:54:35,390 --> 01:54:36,550
I am not cold.

1540
01:54:37,070 --> 01:54:38,550
Come. Let mom hold you.

1541
01:54:41,650 --> 01:54:43,040
What does he want?

1542
01:54:52,100 --> 01:54:53,290
You wanna go out?

1543
01:55:10,050 --> 01:55:14,270
I've had this in mind lately:

1544
01:55:14,630 --> 01:55:17,830
I want my son to call them grandpa grandma.

1545
01:55:18,830 --> 01:55:21,000
But then I wonder,

1546
01:55:21,000 --> 01:55:25,110
when he gets older, he may ask

1547
01:55:26,000 --> 01:55:32,300
Dad, Mom... why do you call
grandpa 'Uncle' instead of dad?

1548
01:55:34,850 --> 01:55:36,300
I've been thinking about it.

1549
01:55:36,300 --> 01:55:37,610
He might also ask:

1550
01:55:37,750 --> 01:55:40,830
Why do I have two maternal
grandmas and grandpas?

1551
01:55:42,890 --> 01:55:46,610
I bet he'll ask that too.

1552
01:56:31,810 --> 01:56:33,110
Remember!

1553
01:56:33,110 --> 01:56:36,160
Don't look at mom while dancing!

1554
01:56:36,280 --> 01:56:37,740
Don't lick your fingers.

1555
01:56:37,870 --> 01:56:39,370
Just focus on dancing.

1556
01:56:39,470 --> 01:56:41,770
The others will follow you.

1557
01:56:42,790 --> 01:56:45,670
If you forget your moves,
they won't know how to do.

1558
01:56:45,670 --> 01:56:47,130
You're the leading dancer.

1559
01:56:47,870 --> 01:56:49,540
Keep up the great work!

1560
01:56:49,710 --> 01:56:51,000
She'll be at the front.

1561
01:56:51,000 --> 01:56:53,430
Her teacher said she
remembers all the moves.

1562
01:56:57,940 --> 01:57:00,790
I've always wanted a daughter.

1563
01:57:01,070 --> 01:57:03,890
So I could dress her beautifully.

1564
01:57:07,360 --> 01:57:10,540
But when Apple was born，

1565
01:57:11,170 --> 01:57:14,060
I was disappointed for my husband.

1566
01:57:14,800 --> 01:57:16,430
Since it was a girl，

1567
01:57:16,850 --> 01:57:21,200
it was a big blow

1568
01:57:21,200 --> 01:57:24,290
to my husband

1569
01:57:24,290 --> 01:57:25,540
who wanted a son.

1570
01:57:26,810 --> 01:57:28,310
Our Apple is right there.

1571
01:57:29,470 --> 01:57:32,870
Teachers are lining them up.

1572
01:57:33,310 --> 01:57:35,720
Let me ask this little
one. How old are you?

1573
01:57:37,220 --> 01:57:38,260
Four and a half.

1574
01:57:38,450 --> 01:57:39,740
Four and half?

1575
01:57:39,990 --> 01:57:41,850
You're very young.

1576
01:57:43,140 --> 01:57:45,350
Why do you crouch down?

1577
01:57:45,610 --> 01:57:47,210
And stand up? Right!

1578
01:57:47,210 --> 01:57:48,680
Our show is about to begin.

1579
01:57:48,680 --> 01:57:52,710
These are kids from junior kindergarten.

1580
01:57:52,710 --> 01:57:55,260
Let's give them a big round of applause!

1581
01:57:57,510 --> 01:57:59,510
Little ones, you are the best!

1582
01:58:01,560 --> 01:58:04,090
Now music on!

1583
01:59:11,210 --> 01:59:12,210
Come and hold him.

1584
01:59:12,670 --> 01:59:13,380
A hug.

1585
01:59:13,380 --> 01:59:14,340
One second.

1586
01:59:15,880 --> 01:59:16,800
What does he want?

1587
01:59:16,800 --> 01:59:18,800
Nothing. He wants you to hold him.

1588
01:59:19,420 --> 01:59:21,220
He stands up when he sees you.

1589
01:59:22,760 --> 01:59:23,810
He's calling.

1590
01:59:45,040 --> 01:59:46,500
The rooster is singing.

1591
01:59:47,790 --> 01:59:48,790
You see it?

1592
01:59:50,630 --> 01:59:53,590
The chickens look different.

1593
01:59:54,300 --> 01:59:55,300
Puppy.

1594
02:00:06,310 --> 02:00:08,310
It hurts Mom.

1595
02:00:09,180 --> 02:00:13,730
During your last pregnancy

1596
02:00:15,270 --> 02:00:17,570
have you ever thought that

1597
02:00:17,570 --> 02:00:24,320
induced abortion is horrible to baby girls?

1598
02:00:29,970 --> 02:00:33,170
This world is horrible to us too.

1599
02:00:33,930 --> 02:00:36,810
Every move is a risk.

1600
02:01:00,820 --> 02:01:04,240
What's the bottom price in your mind?

1601
02:01:04,240 --> 02:01:05,200
80 000 yuan.

1602
02:01:05,200 --> 02:01:07,370
You are selling a daughter or what?

1603
02:01:07,710 --> 02:01:09,290
What are you talking about?

1604
02:01:09,960 --> 02:01:11,670
Don't say that to your own family.

1605
02:01:12,210 --> 02:01:13,500
What nonsense!

1606
02:01:13,800 --> 02:01:17,540
Will you be able to marry a wife for free?

1607
02:01:19,010 --> 02:01:24,260
Will you say to your
future mother-in-law that

1608
02:01:25,360 --> 02:01:26,640
she's selling a daughter?

1609
02:01:26,640 --> 02:01:30,850
Don't expect a penny from
me when you get married.

1610
02:01:31,480 --> 02:01:34,410
You are too young too naive!

1611
02:01:35,280 --> 02:01:38,150
When you get married

1612
02:01:40,970 --> 02:01:42,850
it's gonna cost a lot more.

1613
02:01:45,140 --> 02:01:46,560
That isn't just a money thing.

1614
02:01:46,560 --> 02:01:48,270
Mom, how much will you offer?

1615
02:01:48,270 --> 02:01:49,060
What?

1616
02:01:49,820 --> 02:01:50,820
I'll offer nothing.

1617
02:01:51,530 --> 02:01:52,530
You better mean it.

1618
02:01:53,070 --> 02:01:55,360
You started the topic.

1619
02:01:55,650 --> 02:01:57,070
You won't take my money, right?

1620
02:01:59,580 --> 02:02:01,240
I thought you meant it.

1621
02:02:02,830 --> 02:02:03,830
Sifan.

1622
02:02:06,120 --> 02:02:07,830
Earn the money on your own.

1623
02:02:07,830 --> 02:02:10,210
If only he could.

1624
02:02:11,050 --> 02:02:13,670
Hell! My dad said 80 000 yuan?

1625
02:02:13,670 --> 02:02:15,380
My mom asked for 100 000.

1626
02:02:15,380 --> 02:02:18,720
It was 100 000. Later my dad
called Uncle to say 80 000.

1627
02:02:18,720 --> 02:02:22,890
Then Uncle asked for 20
000 more on my behalf.

1628
02:02:22,890 --> 02:02:25,310
They are making troubles!

1629
02:02:25,810 --> 02:02:27,390
Always change.

1630
02:02:27,770 --> 02:02:32,820
From 100 000 all the way down to 30 000.

1631
02:02:32,820 --> 02:02:34,990
- Sis, you are hitting
the table again. - Don't.

1632
02:02:36,950 --> 02:02:40,030
Stop it. What else can I do now?

1633
02:02:41,620 --> 02:02:47,250
You should get money for
the wedding from his family.

1634
02:02:50,040 --> 02:02:51,630
I can't ask for it.

1635
02:02:51,630 --> 02:02:52,460
You shouldn't.

1636
02:02:52,460 --> 02:02:53,250
I wouldn't.

1637
02:02:53,250 --> 02:02:54,670
When Qiong said you came

1638
02:02:54,670 --> 02:02:59,130
I wondered why your husband didn't come.

1639
02:02:59,130 --> 02:03:01,510
Ask him to propose it.

1640
02:03:02,100 --> 02:03:06,310
Tell him the bottom line,
then he talks to his mom.

1641
02:03:07,520 --> 02:03:10,400
He offered 20 000.

1642
02:03:10,400 --> 02:03:12,400
I told him 20 000 was too little.

1643
02:03:12,400 --> 02:03:16,610
Tell him that you aren't cheap.
So you're worth only 20 000?

1644
02:03:16,610 --> 02:03:18,360
Even the engagement money

1645
02:03:18,360 --> 02:03:19,610
was taken away by him.

1646
02:03:19,610 --> 02:03:21,120
Isn't it true?

1647
02:03:21,120 --> 02:03:24,120
He kept taking money from your family.

1648
02:03:24,120 --> 02:03:26,620
Let's put that aside.

1649
02:03:26,620 --> 02:03:29,160
Now are you as cheap as 20 000?

1650
02:03:30,920 --> 02:03:32,580
How can they be so stingy?

1651
02:03:32,580 --> 02:03:36,460
Now an engagement costs over 100 000.

1652
02:03:39,840 --> 02:03:44,600
You can't be too stingy with a wedding.

1653
02:03:44,600 --> 02:03:47,430
Jin, what do you think?

1654
02:03:47,430 --> 02:03:51,650
How about 50 000 as I suggested?

1655
02:03:51,650 --> 02:03:53,650
Let's settle it down.

1656
02:03:53,650 --> 02:03:56,530
50 000 is too little.

1657
02:03:57,480 --> 02:03:58,860
Listen, Sui's mom…

1658
02:04:02,160 --> 02:04:03,740
Then tell us.

1659
02:04:03,740 --> 02:04:06,830
I can't sit here all day waiting.

1660
02:04:06,830 --> 02:04:07,740
Well...

1661
02:04:08,790 --> 02:04:09,660
Okay...

1662
02:04:09,660 --> 02:04:13,250
100 000 in total. 30 000
was paid for the engagement.

1663
02:04:13,250 --> 02:04:16,300
Pay 70 000 now, to make 100 000.

1664
02:04:16,300 --> 02:04:19,840
The minimum. Okay for you, in-laws?

1665
02:04:19,840 --> 02:04:22,840
This is beyond our means.

1666
02:04:22,840 --> 02:04:25,050
You can't even afford 70 000?

1667
02:04:25,050 --> 02:04:26,810
Way too much for us.

1668
02:04:26,810 --> 02:04:28,220
What do you think?

1669
02:04:29,680 --> 02:04:33,190
Can you all speak?

1670
02:04:35,100 --> 02:04:38,600
You paid 30 000 yuan.

1671
02:04:38,600 --> 02:04:41,440
So just pay 70 000 more.

1672
02:04:41,440 --> 02:04:44,900
We must have some money for the wedding.

1673
02:04:50,980 --> 02:04:54,280
Will you only invite your mom's brothers?

1674
02:04:54,280 --> 02:04:56,780
The biological uncles
should be invited too.

1675
02:04:58,240 --> 02:05:01,370
They must come.

1676
02:05:04,500 --> 02:05:08,210
We can ask people with similar experience.

1677
02:05:10,690 --> 02:05:21,980
In Chinese tradition, at wedding banquets, brothers of the bride's mother are the
most important. They should occupy the best seats, so-called ''seats of honor''.

1678
02:05:25,150 --> 02:05:38,300
For the fostered daughters, should the seats of honor be for maternal
uncles from the foster family or the biological one? Arguments start.

1679
02:05:42,170 --> 02:05:45,520
I don't think there is a problem.

1680
02:05:45,820 --> 02:05:48,550
Did any of the uncles bother to visit her?

1681
02:05:48,860 --> 02:05:51,720
For me, it's okay not to invite them.

1682
02:05:52,070 --> 02:05:55,250
It's my business.

1683
02:05:55,540 --> 02:05:58,250
I don't understand your concern.

1684
02:06:00,210 --> 02:06:05,050
Who ever visited her when she was a child?

1685
02:06:05,050 --> 02:06:08,840
I know it all.

1686
02:06:10,840 --> 02:06:13,900
None of them had cared about her.

1687
02:06:14,220 --> 02:06:18,890
They all knew she was their
niece, but did nothing.

1688
02:06:18,890 --> 02:06:21,940
So it's okay not to invite them.

1689
02:06:21,940 --> 02:06:22,900
It isn't a problem.

1690
02:06:23,730 --> 02:06:25,690
They knew she was your daughter.

1691
02:06:26,070 --> 02:06:28,110
No one even pretended to care about her.

1692
02:06:28,110 --> 02:06:30,450
I raised her up and they just ignored her.

1693
02:06:30,450 --> 02:06:33,990
None even bought her powdered milk.

1694
02:06:33,990 --> 02:06:35,530
Why bring up the past?

1695
02:06:35,530 --> 02:06:37,120
I'm just saying it.

1696
02:06:37,120 --> 02:06:38,540
Are you her foster father?

1697
02:06:38,540 --> 02:06:40,290
Sure I am.

1698
02:06:40,290 --> 02:06:42,500
The real uncles should be invited.

1699
02:06:42,500 --> 02:06:46,500
It's okay if you don't want to invite
them. We respect your decision.

1700
02:06:57,310 --> 02:06:59,220
A wedding should be happy.

1701
02:06:59,220 --> 02:07:00,520
Happy and lively.

1702
02:07:06,860 --> 02:07:08,110
Aren't the flowers pretty?

1703
02:07:08,110 --> 02:07:09,190
You're a first-timer.

1704
02:07:09,190 --> 02:07:11,110
Of course it's my first time.

1705
02:07:12,990 --> 02:07:14,410
The string is too short.

1706
02:07:19,700 --> 02:07:21,250
Oh, too loose.

1707
02:07:26,750 --> 02:07:27,920
Aunt, come in please!

1708
02:07:35,720 --> 02:07:38,390
They already ate.

1709
02:07:38,390 --> 02:07:39,770
Mom, look over there.

1710
02:07:43,520 --> 02:07:44,850
Wow!

1711
02:07:44,850 --> 02:07:46,270
So beautiful.

1712
02:07:46,860 --> 02:07:47,860
But too short.

1713
02:07:47,860 --> 02:07:49,570
You look like sisters.

1714
02:07:49,570 --> 02:07:52,240
The elder sister and the younger one.

1715
02:07:52,240 --> 02:07:53,990
I wish I were that young.

1716
02:07:55,780 --> 02:07:56,660
Mom.

1717
02:07:57,120 --> 02:07:58,120
Jin, take it.

1718
02:08:47,170 --> 02:08:50,090
Do you think life is fair to you?

1719
02:08:51,300 --> 02:08:54,510
I delivered a few more babies.

1720
02:08:54,510 --> 02:08:58,680
Without One-Child Policy,
I'd have kept all of them.

1721
02:08:58,680 --> 02:09:01,600
But we were also too poor.

1722
02:09:01,600 --> 02:09:05,310
Why do all rural people have to have sons?

1723
02:09:05,310 --> 02:09:06,350
I mean

1724
02:09:06,350 --> 02:09:09,400
why is it so important to have a son?

1725
02:09:09,400 --> 02:09:10,860
What does it really mean?

1726
02:09:10,860 --> 02:09:14,780
Sons are always around. Daughters
leave us after their marriage.

1727
02:09:14,780 --> 02:09:20,120
Like your grandma. Even her heartless sons

1728
02:09:20,120 --> 02:09:22,120
were around to feed her

1729
02:09:22,120 --> 02:09:25,000
when she needed it.

1730
02:09:25,620 --> 02:09:28,080
When she had a stroke,

1731
02:09:28,080 --> 02:09:30,630
your uncles were reluctant,

1732
02:09:30,630 --> 02:09:32,250
but they took care of her.

1733
02:09:32,250 --> 02:09:34,920
I couldn't. Not once.

1734
02:09:34,920 --> 02:09:37,130
I didn't even wash her clothes.

1735
02:09:37,130 --> 02:09:39,800
I was pregnant with your brother then.

1736
02:09:41,760 --> 02:09:44,510
I could only go by motorbike
to see her at night.

1737
02:09:45,310 --> 02:09:47,730
I had no time during the day.

1738
02:09:47,730 --> 02:09:50,730
And I had to hide my pregnancy.

1739
02:09:51,100 --> 02:09:53,730
See? Sons are sons after all.

1740
02:09:53,730 --> 02:09:56,190
For better or worse.

1741
02:11:09,930 --> 02:11:11,850
Yes, this is grandma.

1742
02:11:11,850 --> 02:11:12,810
Sister.

1743
02:11:13,190 --> 02:11:15,270
Where is uncle?

1744
02:11:17,060 --> 02:11:18,270
Where is aunt?

1745
02:11:20,610 --> 02:11:21,450
Aunt.

1746
02:11:21,450 --> 02:11:22,530
Where is your aunt?

1747
02:11:22,530 --> 02:11:23,700
Oh, here she is.

1748
02:11:24,130 --> 02:11:25,630
And where is the other aunt?

1749
02:11:59,100 --> 02:12:01,190
Come and have lunch with us today.

1750
02:12:05,240 --> 02:12:07,030
Don't buy anything.

1751
02:12:09,360 --> 02:12:11,450
Okay. Good.

1752
02:12:32,440 --> 02:12:35,240
You should start to learn something,

1753
02:12:36,530 --> 02:12:40,120
while you are still young.

1754
02:12:40,120 --> 02:12:41,830
She should work on the design.

1755
02:12:42,370 --> 02:12:45,540
You should learn to be your own boss.

1756
02:12:47,580 --> 02:12:50,210
You can't work for others all your life.

1757
02:12:50,210 --> 02:12:52,250
It would be great if she could design.

1758
02:12:52,250 --> 02:12:57,010
The wives of other shop owners all do it.

1759
02:12:57,010 --> 02:12:59,220
You have to be able too.

1760
02:13:00,180 --> 02:13:03,930
You should learn to take the orders,

1761
02:13:03,930 --> 02:13:07,230
if Sui is out.

1762
02:13:07,230 --> 02:13:10,020
If there is an order, but
you don't know what to do,

1763
02:13:10,020 --> 02:13:11,650
it can't be worse.

1764
02:13:19,560 --> 02:13:20,730
Hold on.

1765
02:13:32,490 --> 02:13:34,570
Wash it!

1766
02:13:35,780 --> 02:13:37,570
Use some glass cleanser.

1767
02:13:41,870 --> 02:13:44,210
It is so dirty around.

1768
02:13:44,960 --> 02:13:47,960
You should clean up often!

1769
02:13:55,960 --> 02:13:59,010
Hell! Your dad never talks nicely.

1770
02:14:00,060 --> 02:14:01,480
Like evil.

1771
02:14:09,370 --> 02:14:10,750
Got yelled at again?

1772
02:14:11,580 --> 02:14:12,580
Sui.

1773
02:14:16,840 --> 02:14:19,630
Never mind. I've gotten used to it.

1774
02:14:22,510 --> 02:14:23,930
What can I help?

1775
02:14:23,930 --> 02:14:24,930
That thing.

1776
02:14:25,840 --> 02:14:28,510
Peel the garlic and wash it.

1777
02:14:31,850 --> 02:14:33,820
Should we steam the leftover buns?

1778
02:14:34,600 --> 02:14:36,230
- How to peel? - Buns from yesterday.

1779
02:14:36,770 --> 02:14:39,360
Tell me how you want it to be peeled.

1780
02:14:45,660 --> 02:14:46,820
Am I doing it right?

1781
02:14:48,200 --> 02:14:50,540
Qiong, what should I do? Where should I go?

1782
02:14:52,910 --> 02:14:54,960
I have no idea.

1783
02:14:55,790 --> 02:14:57,330
What do you want to do?

1784
02:14:57,330 --> 02:14:58,330
I don't know.

1785
02:14:58,330 --> 02:15:00,960
What kind of job makes you happy?

1786
02:15:00,960 --> 02:15:02,090
I don't know.

1787
02:15:02,090 --> 02:15:05,840
Do you feel happy working here?

1788
02:15:06,790 --> 02:15:08,370
It's hard to say.

1789
02:15:09,350 --> 02:15:14,600
I only know I'll be scolded all the time.

1790
02:15:19,940 --> 02:15:21,010
What's wrong?

1791
02:15:21,310 --> 02:15:25,610
I brought a plaque just now.

1792
02:15:44,860 --> 02:15:46,700
I want to die.

1793
02:15:50,120 --> 02:15:54,200
Your dad is always angry.

1794
02:16:01,040 --> 02:16:03,840
He used to call me Jin.

1795
02:16:03,840 --> 02:16:05,970
Then he started calling me Zhou Jin.

1796
02:16:05,970 --> 02:16:10,760
Now he doesn't call my name.

1797
02:16:17,480 --> 02:16:20,560
Today I cleaned up after the
air conditioner was installed.

1798
02:16:20,560 --> 02:16:24,190
Then he came and ordered
me to clean it thoroughly.

1799
02:16:31,910 --> 02:16:36,080
I always felt like I was
a cleaner in your home.

1800
02:16:36,080 --> 02:16:37,540
When I was in school

1801
02:16:37,540 --> 02:16:40,750
living with your parents,

1802
02:16:40,750 --> 02:16:45,460
I had to mop the floor on weekends.

1803
02:16:48,050 --> 02:16:49,720
I think

1804
02:16:51,930 --> 02:16:54,510
your dad will never like me.

1805
02:16:55,350 --> 02:16:58,230
No matter how much I do for him,

1806
02:16:58,230 --> 02:16:59,200
I feel that

1807
02:17:00,040 --> 02:17:01,340
among the three of us

1808
02:17:01,340 --> 02:17:03,010
he is kinder to you and Li.

1809
02:17:04,610 --> 02:17:05,630
I told Sui

1810
02:17:05,630 --> 02:17:08,610
Uncle wouldn't have scolded him

1811
02:17:08,610 --> 02:17:10,530
if he had married Li or you.

1812
02:17:14,210 --> 02:17:16,310
I feel miserable in your family.

1813
02:17:18,440 --> 02:17:21,290
It's not what I feel. It's what it is.

1814
02:17:30,160 --> 02:17:32,370
It hurts me so much.

1815
02:17:36,250 --> 02:17:39,340
Can we get a beer?

1816
02:17:46,080 --> 02:17:49,880
Dad, will you ask Jin to work in our store?

1817
02:17:50,800 --> 02:17:53,800
Not before she sends her
son back to the village.

1818
02:17:55,090 --> 02:17:57,140
Why not let her go and find her own job?

1819
02:17:57,140 --> 02:17:58,850
Where can she find it?

1820
02:17:59,430 --> 02:18:01,270
You don't even let her try

1821
02:18:02,310 --> 02:18:03,900
before asking her to stay here.

1822
02:18:08,820 --> 02:18:10,440
Did you ask her?

1823
02:18:11,070 --> 02:18:12,070
Ask her what?

1824
02:18:12,070 --> 02:18:14,740
What's her plan?

1825
02:18:15,200 --> 02:18:16,930
She has no skills

1826
02:18:17,460 --> 02:18:19,370
so I want her to learn here.

1827
02:18:19,370 --> 02:18:21,870
She meant to find a job out of town.

1828
02:18:21,870 --> 02:18:25,120
What can she do if she leaves town?

1829
02:18:27,360 --> 02:18:30,400
Who will cook for her husband and son?

1830
02:18:32,050 --> 02:18:34,880
But can she handle things in the store?

1831
02:18:35,260 --> 02:18:37,970
If she can't

1832
02:18:37,970 --> 02:18:40,050
there will be

1833
02:18:40,050 --> 02:18:42,350
just more conflicts.

1834
02:19:37,180 --> 02:19:42,770
Set the first color as 177 227 205.

1835
02:19:42,770 --> 02:19:44,940
177 277

1836
02:20:43,760 --> 02:20:45,380
Is it serious?

1837
02:21:18,610 --> 02:21:21,660
They look down upon Jin.
Who do they think they are?

1838
02:21:21,660 --> 02:21:27,000
Ask yourself, what did she
get after marrying your son?

1839
02:21:27,540 --> 02:21:31,500
So she gave you a grandson
and deserves nothing?

1840
02:21:31,500 --> 02:21:32,880
Even when she's ill?

1841
02:21:32,880 --> 02:21:34,590
What kind of in-laws are you?

1842
02:21:34,590 --> 02:21:38,590
She's in hospital, you don't
visit her or give a cent.

1843
02:21:38,590 --> 02:21:42,850
You don't even have money
for her to see a doctor?

1844
02:21:42,850 --> 02:21:45,140
I don't believe it.

1845
02:21:45,140 --> 02:21:46,770
We all need to help.

1846
02:21:46,770 --> 02:21:49,560
If I were you, I would've borrowed for her.

1847
02:21:49,560 --> 02:21:50,770
No money...

1848
02:22:03,730 --> 02:22:06,110
Do you think Mom is wrong?

1849
02:22:06,110 --> 02:22:08,190
I know they care about me.

1850
02:22:09,030 --> 02:22:11,650
But now it is such a mess.

1851
02:22:11,650 --> 02:22:14,990
We are trying to reason things out

1852
02:22:14,990 --> 02:22:16,030
not to have a fight.

1853
02:22:16,030 --> 02:22:19,040
It'll be awkward when they meet again.

1854
02:22:19,040 --> 02:22:22,460
Why? We just want to make it clear.

1855
02:22:23,120 --> 02:22:26,170
You should understand why
my parents are so mad.

1856
02:22:26,170 --> 02:22:28,500
They are fighting for you.

1857
02:22:29,920 --> 02:22:32,090
They are protecting you.

1858
02:22:32,090 --> 02:22:34,430
I know.

1859
02:22:34,430 --> 02:22:38,600
They don't ask the money for themselves.

1860
02:22:38,600 --> 02:22:39,600
Right?

1861
02:22:43,270 --> 02:22:45,860
They strived so hard for you

1862
02:22:45,860 --> 02:22:48,400
despite everything.

1863
02:22:48,400 --> 02:22:50,990
You know how proud Uncle is.

1864
02:23:04,960 --> 02:23:06,710
She's going to Nanchang tomorrow?

1865
02:23:06,710 --> 02:23:07,670
Yes.

1866
02:23:25,230 --> 02:23:27,350
Let's go see Jin.

1867
02:23:27,940 --> 02:23:30,730
Now go to repair your
shoes then we'll visit her.

1868
02:23:30,730 --> 02:23:32,320
Okay.

1869
02:23:32,320 --> 02:23:33,690
Hurry up.

1870
02:23:35,360 --> 02:23:40,910
I don't want to hang out with
you. You always hold me back.

1871
02:23:40,910 --> 02:23:42,410
Go to ride your motorcycle.

1872
02:23:42,990 --> 02:23:44,500
Why do we need a motorcycle?

1873
02:23:44,500 --> 02:23:46,250
Didn't you say to visit Jin?

1874
02:23:46,250 --> 02:23:47,960
We can just walk, okay?

1875
02:23:47,960 --> 02:23:52,090
Then I'll cross the market
fairs and walk there.

1876
02:23:53,210 --> 02:23:54,460
I can't help it anymore.

1877
02:23:54,840 --> 02:23:56,380
Leave her alone.

1878
02:24:01,580 --> 02:24:02,660
Jesus!

1879
02:24:02,660 --> 02:24:05,870
The birds are so annoying.

1880
02:24:05,870 --> 02:24:08,250
Why are there so many birds?

1881
02:24:08,250 --> 02:24:09,750
Twittering all around.

1882
02:24:10,460 --> 02:24:12,000
So annoying.

1883
02:24:27,530 --> 02:24:31,210
Stop it! I know you care about me.

1884
02:24:32,430 --> 02:24:36,100
The marriage license is
here. I'd rather divorce him.

1885
02:24:37,890 --> 02:24:40,230
So you don't need to worry anymore.

1886
02:24:48,800 --> 02:24:51,050
Why you insisted to marry him?

1887
02:24:53,330 --> 02:24:54,790
You think it's easy?

1888
02:24:54,790 --> 02:24:57,710
I know him too well. I
shall burn their house down

1889
02:24:57,710 --> 02:24:58,960
if they keep fucking up!

1890
02:24:59,420 --> 02:25:02,040
How could they be stingy to that point?

1891
02:25:02,750 --> 02:25:04,340
Shit!

1892
02:25:04,340 --> 02:25:08,090
Sui acts like money isn't an issue.

1893
02:25:11,220 --> 02:25:14,430
Now you're sick and where's the money?

1894
02:25:17,020 --> 02:25:19,940
It's been years

1895
02:25:20,270 --> 02:25:23,270
and you're still broke like shit. Fuck!

1896
02:25:23,270 --> 02:25:25,150
You and your brother are both shit.

1897
02:26:29,960 --> 02:26:31,170
Hello!

1898
02:26:32,220 --> 02:26:33,550
Where are you?

1899
02:26:37,970 --> 02:26:40,350
I just came out from the store.

1900
02:26:45,730 --> 02:26:49,550
I wasn't sure if my parents were asleep.

1901
02:26:49,820 --> 02:26:51,820
So I hesitated to come out.

1902
02:27:02,500 --> 02:27:04,170
Help me carry my stuff.

1903
02:27:04,750 --> 02:27:06,080
Where are you going?

1904
02:27:06,080 --> 02:27:07,420
To sleep in a hotel.

1905
02:27:09,300 --> 02:27:10,590
Come home with me.

1906
02:27:10,590 --> 02:27:11,550
No.

1907
02:27:12,260 --> 02:27:13,630
I won't go to your home.

1908
02:27:16,420 --> 02:27:18,550
How much do you have to
stay in a hotel room?

1909
02:27:19,140 --> 02:27:20,930
He can gamble. I can spend for an hotel.

1910
02:27:20,930 --> 02:27:24,180
I hesitated to pay 80 yuan
for my son's clothes today,

1911
02:27:24,180 --> 02:27:26,180
while he was playing cards.

1912
02:27:30,440 --> 02:27:33,150
Calm down and let's go home.

1913
02:27:35,730 --> 02:27:38,490
You can't leave home like this.

1914
02:27:44,660 --> 02:27:47,040
You are not homeless.

1915
02:27:48,960 --> 02:27:50,960
What is "home"?

1916
02:27:57,300 --> 02:28:02,010
Life can be disappointing sometimes.

1917
02:28:02,010 --> 02:28:03,570
No one is perfect.

1918
02:28:03,850 --> 02:28:05,760
He gambles everyday.

1919
02:28:07,810 --> 02:28:10,100
Talk to him.

1920
02:28:54,980 --> 02:28:57,960
You don't deserve the red heart at all.

1921
02:28:57,960 --> 02:28:58,980
You bit others!

1922
02:29:00,690 --> 02:29:04,240
Why didn't your teacher
give it to you before?

1923
02:29:04,240 --> 02:29:07,080
You bit someone today and
you got the red heart.

1924
02:29:07,080 --> 02:29:09,950
Tell me, did you bite others?

1925
02:29:09,950 --> 02:29:11,500
Did you?

1926
02:29:13,330 --> 02:29:14,790
Speak!

1927
02:29:16,090 --> 02:29:18,050
Did you bite others?

1928
02:29:18,210 --> 02:29:20,380
Did you?

1929
02:29:21,670 --> 02:29:23,470
Did you bite people today?

1930
02:29:24,390 --> 02:29:25,390
Speak!

1931
02:29:26,220 --> 02:29:29,390
No? You liar.

1932
02:29:29,390 --> 02:29:32,020
Why are you holding this?
Do you want to eat it?

1933
02:29:32,020 --> 02:29:34,020
How dare you to put it in your mouth?

1934
02:29:34,020 --> 02:29:37,560
This is a nail. Can't you see it?

1935
02:29:37,560 --> 02:29:39,400
It'll harm your mouth.

1936
02:29:39,900 --> 02:29:43,240
You aren't allowed to eat the
snacks aunt bought for you.

1937
02:29:43,240 --> 02:29:45,280
No snacks!

1938
02:29:48,910 --> 02:29:51,450
Did you bite others today? Answer me.

1939
02:29:51,450 --> 02:29:54,540
Tell me the truth.

1940
02:29:54,960 --> 02:29:57,670
You promised me not to bite people

1941
02:29:57,670 --> 02:30:00,550
but today you did it again!

1942
02:30:00,550 --> 02:30:03,420
Do you ever listen to me?

1943
02:30:04,680 --> 02:30:06,300
Go to your grandma's!

1944
02:30:08,220 --> 02:30:09,300
Get out!

1945
02:30:09,300 --> 02:30:10,220
Don't come back!

1946
02:30:12,560 --> 02:30:13,980
I don't like you.

1947
02:30:21,830 --> 02:30:23,920
No milk!

1948
02:30:28,260 --> 02:30:30,390
No food!

1949
02:30:36,800 --> 02:30:40,760
I told you not to do it,
but you never listen.

1950
02:30:40,790 --> 02:30:44,300
The first one recovered.
Now you injured another one.

1951
02:30:45,920 --> 02:30:47,550
Don't you remember my words?

1952
02:30:48,380 --> 02:30:51,630
Won't you learn the lesson?

1953
02:30:51,760 --> 02:30:53,430
Get out of here!

1954
02:31:23,090 --> 02:31:24,670
No.

1955
02:31:27,930 --> 02:31:29,380
Mom.

1956
02:31:31,470 --> 02:31:34,180
Sit naked if you dare.

1957
02:31:36,600 --> 02:31:38,270
I thought you were asleep.

1958
02:31:38,270 --> 02:31:40,480
Aren't your hands cold?

1959
02:31:42,060 --> 02:31:44,650
Look at you, as cool as a cucumber.

1960
02:31:52,280 --> 02:31:55,330
No school tomorrow? Go to sleep!

1961
02:31:59,080 --> 02:32:02,290
Stop messing around.

1962
02:32:06,380 --> 02:32:08,590
Get under the covers now.

1963
02:32:09,630 --> 02:32:11,590
Stop it!

1964
02:32:26,230 --> 02:32:26,940
Let's go.

1965
02:32:28,690 --> 02:32:29,700
Go! Go!

1966
02:32:29,990 --> 02:32:30,990
Go!

1967
02:32:50,210 --> 02:32:51,330
Go!

1968
02:32:59,850 --> 02:33:01,980
Hurry up! Do you want to miss the bus?

1969
02:33:02,480 --> 02:33:02,980
No!

1970
02:33:02,980 --> 02:33:04,440
Get your ass back to your dad!

1971
02:33:04,440 --> 02:33:05,940
Go!

1972
02:33:11,450 --> 02:33:12,820
Let's go, sweetheart.

1973
02:33:13,530 --> 02:33:14,530
Hello.

1974
02:33:17,110 --> 02:33:18,940
What's up?

1975
02:33:19,830 --> 02:33:22,410
I'm on my way back home.

1976
02:33:26,040 --> 02:33:27,880
No.

1977
02:33:30,130 --> 02:33:32,260
Your son played cards till 6am today.

1978
02:33:32,260 --> 02:33:34,560
With my son there the whole night.

1979
02:33:36,720 --> 02:33:40,100
Last time he played for three
nights and I didn't say anything.

1980
02:33:40,100 --> 02:33:43,690
Today, I called him at 6am, when I got up.

1981
02:33:43,690 --> 02:33:45,440
He was still at the last round.

1982
02:33:45,440 --> 02:33:46,860
With my son there!

1983
02:33:46,860 --> 02:33:47,940
Let's go, baby!

1984
02:33:48,900 --> 02:33:52,440
I'd rather go back to rice
drying than staying with him.

1985
02:33:54,150 --> 02:33:55,740
He's hopeless.

1986
02:33:56,740 --> 02:33:57,990
Hurry up.

1987
02:33:58,490 --> 02:34:00,580
Sorry, mom yelled at you.

1988
02:34:00,580 --> 02:34:01,700
I'm so sorry. Come.

1989
02:34:01,700 --> 02:34:04,160
Mom was too angry just now.

1990
02:34:14,220 --> 02:34:16,760
Jin should let us know what's going on.

1991
02:34:18,970 --> 02:34:20,510
She should talk to us.

1992
02:34:20,510 --> 02:34:22,450
She can't always bear it alone.

1993
02:34:22,450 --> 02:34:24,770
And she can't solve it herself.

1994
02:34:28,740 --> 02:34:32,070
Did she give Sui the money
we gave her at the wedding?

1995
02:34:32,360 --> 02:34:33,820
Do you laminate photos?

1996
02:34:33,820 --> 02:34:34,820
Yes.

1997
02:34:36,990 --> 02:34:38,910
Does she keep it to herself?

1998
02:34:38,910 --> 02:34:41,790
She doesn't even know the PIN.

1999
02:34:41,790 --> 02:34:43,660
I didn't tell her the password.

2000
02:34:44,080 --> 02:34:45,710
No. You told her.

2001
02:34:45,710 --> 02:34:46,370
What?

2002
02:34:46,370 --> 02:34:47,620
You told her the PIN.

2003
02:34:48,200 --> 02:34:49,170
I didn't.

2004
02:34:49,170 --> 02:34:50,460
I remember you did.

2005
02:34:50,460 --> 02:34:51,420
No.

2006
02:34:51,420 --> 02:34:52,750
When was that?

2007
02:34:52,750 --> 02:34:54,010
I didn't tell her.

2008
02:34:54,010 --> 02:34:55,760
You did when she got in the car.

2009
02:34:55,760 --> 02:34:57,050
I didn't say anthing.

2010
02:34:57,050 --> 02:34:59,140
I remember mom didn't say anything.

2011
02:34:59,850 --> 02:35:02,060
Wished her not to withdraw the money.

2012
02:35:02,060 --> 02:35:06,940
She's so stupid to give
all money to her husband.

2013
02:35:09,270 --> 02:35:12,270
She trusted him so much.

2014
02:35:12,270 --> 02:35:14,280
She didn't expect him to cheat her.

2015
02:35:14,280 --> 02:35:16,360
This is the main reason.

2016
02:35:16,780 --> 02:35:18,740
He cheated her all the way.

2017
02:35:19,610 --> 02:35:21,370
He did cheat her.

2018
02:35:21,370 --> 02:35:23,240
He didn't say anything true.

2019
02:35:29,790 --> 02:35:36,250
Have you used all the money your
parents gave you for the wedding?

2020
02:35:37,630 --> 02:35:39,050
She said they had.

2021
02:35:41,220 --> 02:35:43,220
What about the money we gave you?

2022
02:35:43,220 --> 02:35:45,300
That they might not have.

2023
02:35:45,300 --> 02:35:46,890
You have?

2024
02:35:48,520 --> 02:35:49,520
Have you?

2025
02:35:50,610 --> 02:35:52,360
On that bank card?

2026
02:35:52,360 --> 02:35:53,690
Yes, we have.

2027
02:35:54,240 --> 02:35:55,570
All of it?

2028
02:35:55,570 --> 02:35:56,320
Yes.

2029
02:35:56,320 --> 02:35:57,700
Oh, no!

2030
02:35:57,700 --> 02:35:59,830
Didn't we tell you to keep it for yourself?

2031
02:35:59,830 --> 02:36:02,080
How could you be such a fool?

2032
02:36:02,080 --> 02:36:04,660
Where has the damn money gone?

2033
02:36:04,660 --> 02:36:06,120
How did you spend so much?

2034
02:36:06,120 --> 02:36:07,420
We invested in the shop.

2035
02:36:09,040 --> 02:36:12,090
In your shop? How come
you're still in debt?

2036
02:36:12,090 --> 02:36:14,210
What kind of business is it?

2037
02:36:14,210 --> 02:36:16,590
No, your husband lied
to you about the money.

2038
02:36:16,590 --> 02:36:19,220
He's going to take away all your money.

2039
02:36:20,890 --> 02:36:22,430
We've warned you

2040
02:36:22,430 --> 02:36:25,770
not to let him touch the money,

2041
02:36:25,770 --> 02:36:27,730
no matter what he said.

2042
02:36:28,600 --> 02:36:32,730
You never listened to us.
You believed all he said.

2043
02:36:34,650 --> 02:36:35,900
Bullshit.

2044
02:36:39,500 --> 02:36:44,340
He'd have taken it all,
even if you had more.

2045
02:36:46,420 --> 02:36:47,840
He's a fucking loser!

2046
02:36:50,260 --> 02:36:52,050
Get lost. I want to walk alone.

2047
02:36:54,390 --> 02:36:56,180
I'll walk with you.

2048
02:36:56,430 --> 02:36:58,180
Stop filming me! I've had enough.

2049
02:37:24,460 --> 02:37:26,000
Three daughters.

2050
02:37:27,050 --> 02:37:31,220
Oh, I shouldn't have counted myself.
I'd never say I'm their daughter.

2051
02:37:32,090 --> 02:37:34,510
I've always had this in mind:

2052
02:37:34,510 --> 02:37:36,350
I'm the worst.

2053
02:37:36,350 --> 02:37:39,430
He despises me. He despises my mom.

2054
02:37:43,190 --> 02:37:47,730
You all seem to be so kind to me.

2055
02:37:53,910 --> 02:37:55,780
You know him.

2056
02:38:00,000 --> 02:38:02,000
He's like that to all of us

2057
02:38:02,000 --> 02:38:04,540
not just to you.

2058
02:38:04,540 --> 02:38:05,460
Well,

2059
02:38:05,460 --> 02:38:08,300
I've told you it's just not the same story.

2060
02:38:08,300 --> 02:38:11,340
With that kind of attitude,
I would never ever get close.

2061
02:38:13,880 --> 02:38:15,090
Then tell him.

2062
02:38:15,090 --> 02:38:16,260
I won't.

2063
02:38:16,260 --> 02:38:20,140
Let him know your decision.

2064
02:38:20,720 --> 02:38:22,770
I don't want to speak with him.

2065
02:38:26,010 --> 02:38:27,550
I've had enough.

2066
02:38:30,320 --> 02:38:32,400
Especially dealing with your dad.

2067
02:38:35,860 --> 02:38:38,910
If you don't like it here, just leave.

2068
02:38:38,910 --> 02:38:41,160
Your mom wants me to settle down here.

2069
02:38:41,160 --> 02:38:44,000
But I've always wanted
to be away from you all.

2070
02:38:45,210 --> 02:38:47,250
I shouldn't have come back.

2071
02:39:37,550 --> 02:39:40,770
Dad really cares about Jin.

2072
02:39:41,050 --> 02:39:43,270
But she can't feel it.

2073
02:39:44,810 --> 02:39:48,270
She might see it, but she
can't feel it in her heart.

2074
02:39:48,270 --> 02:39:51,650
Or she feels it, but pretends not to.

2075
02:39:51,650 --> 02:39:53,690
Maybe Sui has bewitched her.

2076
02:39:53,690 --> 02:39:55,650
She can't feel it because of Sui.

2077
02:39:55,650 --> 02:39:59,240
I think what Jin wants
and what dad gives her...

2078
02:39:59,240 --> 02:40:01,200
Are different?

2079
02:40:01,200 --> 02:40:03,370
Not on the same level.

2080
02:40:03,370 --> 02:40:09,290
Jin wants Dad to love her
as much as her father does.

2081
02:40:09,290 --> 02:40:11,630
She's used to that kind of parental love.

2082
02:40:11,630 --> 02:40:12,710
But in our family

2083
02:40:12,710 --> 02:40:18,680
she hopes Mom and Dad
can be even more caring.

2084
02:40:18,680 --> 02:40:19,590
But they…

2085
02:40:19,590 --> 02:40:23,470
She already has a child.

2086
02:40:23,470 --> 02:40:25,430
She is a mother now.

2087
02:40:25,430 --> 02:40:27,180
In her heart…

2088
02:40:27,180 --> 02:40:28,440
I don't know how to say it.

2089
02:40:28,440 --> 02:40:30,270
Jin…

2090
02:40:30,270 --> 02:40:33,320
I don't like Jin's attitude.

2091
02:40:34,190 --> 02:40:39,120
She's a mother herself
and should've empathy.

2092
02:40:39,570 --> 02:40:42,120
She's just too childish.

2093
02:40:42,120 --> 02:40:43,700
She needs to grow up.

2094
02:40:43,700 --> 02:40:46,040
She's childish.

2095
02:40:46,700 --> 02:40:50,050
She needs to act like a real mom.

2096
02:40:50,330 --> 02:40:53,130
Perhaps since she learned about her birth,

2097
02:40:53,130 --> 02:40:55,750
she was trying to

2098
02:40:56,300 --> 02:40:58,050
get back what she had missed.

2099
02:40:59,760 --> 02:41:01,970
If I were her, I'd be like that too.

2100
02:41:04,430 --> 02:41:06,180
Destiny.

2101
02:41:12,330 --> 02:41:13,580
Cool!

2102
02:41:18,090 --> 02:41:19,960
It's so hot.

2103
02:41:22,970 --> 02:41:25,640
Tomorrow I want to ride
the motorcycle to school.

2104
02:41:32,190 --> 02:41:33,400
Dad.

2105
02:41:33,400 --> 02:41:35,310
What about

2106
02:41:35,310 --> 02:41:37,020
sending me some money.

2107
02:41:39,980 --> 02:41:43,070
I don't have much left on my WeChat.

2108
02:41:43,070 --> 02:41:44,660
Only 100 Yuan left.

2109
02:41:44,660 --> 02:41:46,950
Then give me 50.

2110
02:41:46,950 --> 02:41:48,410
One half for each.

2111
02:41:50,580 --> 02:41:51,960
What do you want money for?

2112
02:41:51,960 --> 02:41:53,500
I just need it.

2113
02:41:53,500 --> 02:41:55,460
Okay. I'll send you later.

2114
02:41:55,460 --> 02:41:56,750
I want it too.

2115
02:41:58,690 --> 02:42:00,840
Ask Qiong to help with your English.

2116
02:42:00,840 --> 02:42:01,510
No talking.

2117
02:42:01,510 --> 02:42:02,970
Mom, we're doing an interview.

2118
02:42:02,970 --> 02:42:03,840
Oh, go ahead.

2119
02:42:03,840 --> 02:42:04,840
Leave us alone.

2120
02:42:04,840 --> 02:42:05,510
I won't disturb.

2121
02:42:05,510 --> 02:42:06,850
Close the door.

2122
02:42:14,020 --> 02:42:15,690
- You trim your toenails? - What?

2123
02:42:15,690 --> 02:42:17,150
Please go out.

2124
02:42:17,150 --> 02:42:18,730
Come on!

2125
02:42:18,730 --> 02:42:20,820
Go on. I won't cut in.

2126
02:42:20,820 --> 02:42:22,360
But you can hear us.

2127
02:42:22,360 --> 02:42:23,610
So what?

2128
02:42:23,610 --> 02:42:25,280
That's a secret.

2129
02:42:26,410 --> 02:42:28,320
You are rushing me nowhere.

2130
02:42:28,320 --> 02:42:29,870
Don't do it in my room.

2131
02:42:29,870 --> 02:42:32,080
I'm going to your room.

2132
02:42:32,080 --> 02:42:33,790
Close the door, mom.

2133
02:42:34,120 --> 02:42:36,620
So no one is allowed in?

2134
02:42:38,460 --> 02:42:41,420
Jin thinks you don't want
to talk to her anymore.

2135
02:42:42,210 --> 02:42:44,840
She misunderstood me.

2136
02:42:44,840 --> 02:42:47,800
She thinks you are mad at her.

2137
02:42:47,800 --> 02:42:50,310
I am mad

2138
02:42:50,310 --> 02:42:52,810
at her husband.

2139
02:42:54,180 --> 02:42:56,270
I feel sorry for her.

2140
02:42:56,270 --> 02:42:57,480
For whom?

2141
02:42:57,480 --> 02:42:58,690
Jin.

2142
02:43:00,610 --> 02:43:02,030
But you don't talk to her.

2143
02:43:02,030 --> 02:43:04,900
You seem to ignore her

2144
02:43:05,950 --> 02:43:08,410
as if you dislike her.

2145
02:43:11,660 --> 02:43:13,450
How should I explain it?

2146
02:43:18,370 --> 02:43:21,210
I really want her to divorce.

2147
02:43:21,380 --> 02:43:23,840
Then she will come back.

2148
02:43:23,840 --> 02:43:25,550
A divorce

2149
02:43:25,550 --> 02:43:26,970
may not

2150
02:43:26,970 --> 02:43:28,470
bring her a better life

2151
02:43:29,760 --> 02:43:35,100
or bring her back to us.

2152
02:43:36,140 --> 02:43:38,140
In a few years

2153
02:43:38,140 --> 02:43:42,770
she'll return home if
life isn't good there.

2154
02:43:44,940 --> 02:43:49,280
She may come back if she
sees her husband's real face.

2155
02:43:55,040 --> 02:43:57,660
I think she will regret one day.

2156
02:43:58,000 --> 02:43:59,250
If...

2157
02:43:59,250 --> 02:44:02,920
If we can change the way dad

2158
02:44:02,920 --> 02:44:05,050
treats her

2159
02:44:05,050 --> 02:44:06,800
she will possibly

2160
02:44:06,800 --> 02:44:08,720
be happier.

2161
02:44:10,220 --> 02:44:12,760
She would've been happier
if she hadn't married Sui.

2162
02:44:19,890 --> 02:44:21,980
It's all Sui's fault.

2163
02:44:21,980 --> 02:44:23,900
So you think mom, dad, all of us

2164
02:44:23,900 --> 02:44:25,320
have no responsibility?

2165
02:44:25,320 --> 02:44:25,820
Yes, we do.

2166
02:44:25,820 --> 02:44:28,110
So we can't put all the blame on Sui.

2167
02:44:28,110 --> 02:44:29,740
We are all part of it.

2168
02:44:29,740 --> 02:44:32,620
No one is innocent on this.

2169
02:44:41,710 --> 02:44:45,380
My fault is that I didn't find a solution.

2170
02:44:45,380 --> 02:44:48,630
You didn't help me. This is your fault.

2171
02:44:50,050 --> 02:44:51,890
Dad is always abusive

2172
02:44:51,890 --> 02:44:53,800
and hurts everyone.

2173
02:44:54,470 --> 02:44:57,640
This is his fault.

2174
02:45:02,060 --> 02:45:05,320
Jin needs to be stronger to bear this.

2175
02:45:09,740 --> 02:45:11,910
She'll be fine if she gets used to it.

2176
02:45:12,820 --> 02:45:14,410
It's not her fault.

2177
02:45:25,790 --> 02:45:29,710
I wonder what would happen
if she hadn't been sent away.

2178
02:45:52,180 --> 02:45:54,060
Where are you going?

2179
02:45:56,810 --> 02:45:59,440
You're going to take a plane.

2180
02:45:59,440 --> 02:46:03,940
You fly.

2181
02:46:05,490 --> 02:46:06,860
I want to go with you.

2182
02:46:07,780 --> 02:46:10,160
You can't, baby. You need to study.

2183
02:46:11,030 --> 02:46:13,120
Where to study?

2184
02:46:17,880 --> 02:46:19,590
Say bye bye to Mom.

2185
02:46:19,590 --> 02:46:20,670
Say bye bye to aunt.

2186
02:46:20,670 --> 02:46:21,630
Bye.

2187
02:46:21,630 --> 02:46:22,800
They are going to work.

2188
02:46:22,800 --> 02:46:24,920
Yes, they're going to make money.

2189
02:46:24,920 --> 02:46:26,130
They go to work.

2190
02:46:26,130 --> 02:46:27,930
Yes, work and make money.

2191
02:46:28,140 --> 02:46:29,970
Bye bye!

2192
02:46:36,760 --> 02:46:38,140
Bye bye!

2193
02:46:38,800 --> 02:46:40,760
Be a good boy, sweetheart!

2194
02:46:40,760 --> 02:46:43,390
You as well.

2195
02:46:56,770 --> 02:47:06,900
Jin and Sui left town to try their
chance in a big city far away.

2196
02:48:20,810 --> 02:48:23,120
Got any more questions?

2197
02:48:23,320 --> 02:48:25,580
Do you have questions for me?

2198
02:48:27,540 --> 02:48:29,870
I've been filming you all the time.

2199
02:48:32,380 --> 02:48:33,920
Now you film me.

2200
02:48:35,800 --> 02:48:37,090
What if I mess it up?

2201
02:48:37,090 --> 02:48:38,170
Don't worry.

2202
02:48:38,340 --> 02:48:39,760
I have no one else

2203
02:48:40,970 --> 02:48:42,180
to talk with.

2204
02:48:42,180 --> 02:48:43,890
I don't know

2205
02:48:44,760 --> 02:48:46,260
where to go.

2206
02:48:46,260 --> 02:48:47,720
I have nowhere to go.

2207
02:48:48,600 --> 02:48:51,890
A stranger should've adopted
me rather than my father.

2208
02:48:53,520 --> 02:48:54,730
Why?

2209
02:48:54,730 --> 02:48:58,230
Then you parents wouldn't
have looked for me.

2210
02:48:58,230 --> 02:48:59,530
Would they?

2211
02:48:59,530 --> 02:49:00,530
I believe so.

2212
02:49:00,530 --> 02:49:02,110
I think they would have too.

2213
02:49:02,700 --> 02:49:04,820
But they might not have found me

2214
02:49:04,820 --> 02:49:06,370
after so many years.

2215
02:49:08,050 --> 02:49:10,650
If we had never known each other,

2216
02:49:10,850 --> 02:49:13,220
would you recognize me on the street?

2217
02:49:22,720 --> 02:49:25,850
What did your mother say about my birth?

2218
02:49:37,650 --> 02:49:40,360
The 18th Central Committee's
5th Plenary Session ended.

2219
02:49:40,360 --> 02:49:43,990
It aimed to plan China's development
system for the next 5 years.

2220
02:49:43,990 --> 02:49:48,200
The 13th Five-Year Plan's development
blueprint attracted national attention.

2221
02:49:48,200 --> 02:49:50,950
China must adhere to the
family planning policy

2222
02:49:50,950 --> 02:49:52,710
improve the demographic growth

2223
02:49:52,710 --> 02:49:55,830
and implement a policy for all
couples to have two children

2224
02:49:55,830 --> 02:49:58,420
to address the challenge
of an aging population.

2225
02:50:08,220 --> 02:50:11,100
Do you ever miss your lost children?

2226
02:50:11,100 --> 02:50:12,310
Of course I do.

2227
02:50:13,350 --> 02:50:15,460
I will miss the two lost lives

2228
02:50:15,520 --> 02:50:17,610
till the end of my life.

2229
02:51:17,350 --> 02:51:22,750
Why don't you divorce? Why do
you choose him rather than us?

2230
02:51:31,280 --> 02:51:34,910
You all think I am an
idiot. Why don't I divorce?

2231
02:51:35,300 --> 02:51:44,600
Because I don't want my son to
live in a broken family like I do.

2232
02:51:57,100 --> 02:52:09,940
Think of my last seven years in your family,
life has offered me love, but gave me more pain.

2233
02:52:17,780 --> 02:52:24,390
The air is free in a world without your parents.
But I can't stop having them in my dreams.

2234
02:52:28,210 --> 02:52:31,420
Do you miss them?

2235
02:52:33,430 --> 02:52:35,850
No.

2236
02:52:51,780 --> 02:52:53,450
How nice it would be

2237
02:52:54,150 --> 02:52:57,750
if you and my parents

2238
02:52:58,670 --> 02:53:00,080
could bridge the gap.

2239
02:53:01,880 --> 02:53:03,050
What do you think?

2240
02:53:05,990 --> 02:53:08,580
How long does it take for this to happen?

2241
02:53:13,280 --> 02:53:14,950
My whole life?